repoman
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There are a lot of cool calm and collected trans people out there that are not in a constant panic attack state about really and truly being the same as cisgendered people of the sex they have transitioned to.
Well they did use to say "she made him a man", didn't they? So by a strictly traditional definition, a boy remains a boy until/unless he becomes sexually active with the opposite sex.
The point is, your definition may be more ttaditional than the one preferred by some trans activists, but it's not the one true factual and traditional people have always used - it too is ultimately arbitrary.
Well they did use to say "she made him a man", didn't they? So by a strictly traditional definition, a boy remains a boy until/unless he becomes sexually active with the opposite sex.
And do you think that figure of speech should actually become the definition of man--a male who has had heterosexual sex at least once?
I don't think that's a good definition, but obviously some people feel the need to attach all kinds of qualifiers.
Conversely, are lesbians lesser women?
The point is, your definition may be more ttaditional than the one preferred by some trans activists, but it's not the one true factual and traditional people have always used - it too is ultimately arbitrary.
Definitions evolve from use; they are not 'arbitrary'.
You appear to know better than lexicographers what a man is....
I don't believe that makes them somehow lesser men. But if you believe it, more power to you.
You must be a deeply unhappy man.
You appear to know better than lexicographers what a man is....
Lexicographers? Lol. It appears to have escaped your notice completely that the terms, status and categories of trans gender woman and man are more or less already basically and legally recognised in principle at least in many places. You even use them yourself!
Basic observation and logic fails.
Again, because you seem to be having persistent difficulties with this, I repeat, you just don't get to say what the agreed definitions and criteria are. That is not something you get to do. It's that simple. All you and others who agree with you get to do is tell us the ones you prefer. Now, that can't be so hard for you to understand, surely?
Also, you might want to consider using different descriptors and language. It is obviously illogical to say that a trans woman is not in the general category woman. You could say 'merely a so-called trans woman' perhaps. And by the same token others could say you were 'merely a so-called proper man', albeit for slightly different reasons. You may say you personally don't care but that is not the point, because the wider point is about how society treats people generally, and intolerance breeds intolerance, even if not by using a penis as nature intended.
Also, as ever, complaining about radicals who may go too far or ask too much does not justify lumping all those who disagree with you together. But you know that. And you object to it when it's done to you. Your tit-for-tat standards essentially invalidate your arguments and are a bit like those of the children's playground, imo.
I prefer the dictionary definition.
Asking me to call an adult human male a "woman" is going too far.
I prefer the dictionary definition.
Dictionary? Why? Dictionaries typically provide a range of definitions, sometimes colloquial only. Legal recognitions are much more specific and have higher standing compared to dictionaries.
Still having trouble with the fact that you don't get to decide, I see. .
So your beliefs clearly do conflict with reality after all.
Maybe you have other deficiencies to go along with you not being a proper man.
Asking me to call an adult human male a "woman" is going too far.
That's odd, because you already do.
Given my sexual orientation and yours, and that we don't really know each other, that's arguably a micro-aggression.I prefer the dictionary definition.
Dictionary? Why? Dictionaries typically provide a range of definitions, sometimes colloquial only. Legal recognitions are much more specific and have higher standing compared to dictionaries.
Still having trouble with the fact that you don't get to decide, I see. .
So your beliefs clearly do conflict with reality after all.
Maybe you have other deficiencies to go along with you not being a proper man.
Sure luv.
Asking me to call an adult human male a "woman" is going too far.
That's odd, because you already do.
Sure luv.
Gold price is going through the roof..
Asking me to call an adult human male a "woman" is going too far.
That's odd, because you already do, according to you.
Anyhows, lots of things go to far for you.
Gold price is going through the roof..
Bit like my proper man appendage when I'm in bed with my woman, or maybe even like her state of mind after we've been there for a while and I've done some proper man things to her.
I'll say his about you. You're completely unlampoonable. [/irony]
Laters. I'm done discussing this with you.
Transwomen are men.
I always leaned more toward the "bisexuals are just horny" side of things, myself.I used to be one of the cynical 'bisexuals are just gay' crowd.
I always leaned more toward the "bisexuals are just horny" side of things, myself.I used to be one of the cynical 'bisexuals are just gay' crowd.
Transwomen are men.
That's as vacuous as saying gay men are heterosexual.
You're arguing a strict "biological category."
The only biological purpose for an orgasm--for ejaculation--is to drive you to impregnate women. Your penis serves only one biological imperative, so if you are not sticking it in a woman's vagina, you are acting outside of your biological category in the exact same way that you are bizarrely arguing transgendered people are doing.