Why don't they agree with your claim?
They say kids can enjoy stuff.
They say kids can give consent. (Especially gay kids)
They say what kids don't know can't hurt them.
They say we do shit loads of stuff to kids without their permission.
Are you talking about in the animal kingdom?
southernhybrid said:
Some crazy incels think rape should be legal.
Law of the jungle?
southernhybrid said:
Bestiality? Are you seriously equating that with secularism
Have you got a secular argument against dogs being allowed to hump humans if they both consent?
BTW - In many cases of beastiality, the animal giving consent is the human/primate.
That's not even worth giving a thoughtful response. It's nonsense. Why don't you stop judging the morality of people who don't share your Christian beliefs and come to terms with the fact that people are primarily influenced by their genetics and their environment? Stop judging and making up nonsense about people that don't agree with you! It sounds as if you're saying that if it wasn't for your beliefs, you'd be having sex with dogs? Is that it? I really don't think that dogs are capable of consensual sex with humans, although I once had a chihuahua who seemed to enjoy humping a particular toy, despite the fact that he was neutered. You and Lerner seem to have some kind of obsession with bestiality.


Yuck!
But, I do think that religion can sometimes have positives for some people.
Religion helps people keep from feeling isolated. For example, one of my former patients was a Jehovah Witness. She was a very difficult person to be around, demanding, and sometimes very manipulative. I always tried my best to be a patient advocate for her. I knew that she suffered from being abused as a child, as well as being cognitively immature. In other words, she was a 70 plus year old child. Other than me, her JW friends were the only ones that ever visited her or did little things for her. So, I came to the conclusion that there are some people in the world that need community so badly, that they will join a religious group for community and emotional support. I salute religious folks who are willing to put in the time caring for people like my former patient. Another example of this would be the Black Christian church and the organization of the Civil Rights Movement. Ironically, Christianity was once used to justify slavery, but later it was used as a defense of civil rights for all. Religion can become progressive over time.
Religion gives people hope. Imo, it's false hope but who cares? If the belief in an afterlife and a supernatural power helps you cope with the sometimes very harsh aspects of reality, then it's helpful. I remember a prayer from my ex husband's religion, the Baha'i Faith. "Is there any remover of difficulties, save God, Say praise be god. He is god. All are his servants and all abide by his bidding. ( something like that ) Ritualistic prayers and meditations sometimes keep people calm. They help people have hope. Hope is something that helps us cope. My husband's late grandmother was a Syrian Catholic. She spent many hours a day with her rosary beads in her lap. I think her prayers brought her peace. She was a very tolerant, lovely person, who was probably helped by her rituals and beliefs.
Religion can sometimes inspire us to be better people. I feel I am able to be good without god, but I have known several people that have told me that they can't be good without god. They have told me that Jesus keeps them straight. I like some of the ideas of the NT, like helping the poor, having compassion and not judging others. Not all Christians abide by these NT teachings, but some are certainly motivated by them. For example. Many years ago, my husband and I were in a car accident. We were stranded about 25 miles from home, in an area where it was hard to find a taxi. A man overheard me trying to phone a friend without success and he offered to drive us home. During the ride home, he told us that his pastor had preached about doing more for others during the last Sunday service and that motivated him to give us a long, out of the way, drive home. He was certainly a good man. He may not have volunteered to drive us home if he hadn't been inspired by his church. I really don't know, but as we two atheists sat quietly, glancing at each other in the back seat of his SUV, you better believe that we were glad that he had attended church in the past week.
So, I've given you three things that religion can sometimes be good for, but there are plenty of people who don't have religion that also do outstanding things for others. Case in point. Several months ago, my husband and I decided to attend the Atlanta Freethought Society's monthly meeting. We were once members and hoped to see some old friends. The speaker was a retired atheist nurse who voluntarily traveled the world, often with Christian nurses, to care for people in other countries that were extremely poor, sometimes ravaged by the impact of war and disease, but always without good access to medical care. She was getting ready to get back on the road to travel to Africa for her next act of kindness and caring. I found her very inspiring, although I will readily admit, that I don't have the courage or will to do something that selfless and remarkable. My point is that one doesn't need religion to be highly moral, and inspiring.
So, don't tell me about your beliefs, which might seem sensible to you but seem like total nonsense to me. Tell me the good things that your beliefs have inspired you to do. Then, at least I can respect you, regardless of what influenced you to be a better person. My personal philosophy is that we should not judge others based on their beliefs. Other than genetic luck, there have been many things in my life that inspired me to be a better person, and none of them have a thing to do with religion. If we must judge people at all, let it be by their character. Yes. It's hard at times, but I keep reminding myself that we are all influenced by very different factors.