She said women are the primary victims of war. It's right there in the quote for you to read. She is placing them above all others (most notably the men who actually are dead) in their victimness. This is what the word "primary" fucking means.
Yes, she said the word "primary" which has no clear and objective meaning without context. It does not mean that the type of harm done to women is qualitatively greater than the type of harm done to soldiers. First, soldiers are not even included in what she is referring to and are typically NOT included as "victims" but rather are referred to as casualties. This makes perfect sense, because the soldier are the ones' actively engaged in causing the outcomes of war and active participants are not typically referred to as "victims", even when they are harmed in unfortunate ways that everyone agree is a bad thing. In addition to casualties being irrelevant, "primary" could and likely does in this context merely refer to the relative number of women and men who comprise the non-combatants that experience severe hardships resulting from war, and not a qualitative comparison about the severity of each individuals hardships. IOW, it means the same thing as "Rush fans are primarily men", which in no way suggests that the women that are Rush fans are qualitatively less fans than the men.
Not only is it common and reasonable not to include military personnel among "victims of war" (which is disctinct from "casualties"), but her explication, which is also "right there in the quote for you to read" is clearly not referring to deaths in general (military or otherwise), since plenty of women die due to war and yet her explication makes no reference to those women who die, only to those that live to suffer the results of war. If your dead, your not suffering. She used "victim" as a shorthand for non-combatants who suffer the results of wars. In that notion of what she meant and explained she meant by "victims of war", she is correct that women are the primary "victims".
Only severe ignorance or dishonesty would lead to any other interpretation.