tomboys have existed since forever, the same with transgender, effeminate men, intersexed persons, etc. the spectrum has always existed, no trends except what perhaps is socially acceptable, thus outing themselves or not and in what ways they may do so.
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What bugs me is: why seek and expect special treatment because you are X or Y or Q. Rights apply across the board to every single human, regardless of all of what goes on inside your noggin, or in your naughty bits. I, myself, kind of think I ought to have been born a woman, but I'd have been a lesbian. That's just how I feel, and it's just the way it is. I would never expect a fellow citizen to give a tinker's damn about what I "feel" inside or what gets my rocks off. I have a willy and I use the men's.
BUT (there's always a (_!_) ) IF, I were in the process of undergoing surgical transition from male to female, and
looked like a lady but still had my willy, I'd use the ladies'. And good on the Talk Freethought person - I think it was bigfield - who alerted me to such a circumstance. Thanks, bigfield. 1 +.
But in general, unless you're truly, physically androgynous, and have very serious gender issues to deal with, there's no reason to go gallivanting into a bathroom where you don't belong.
