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Why are "refugees" still having children?

Brilliant idea. Have a baby even though the future is uncertain.

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We're seeing the pattern all too common in liberal thought that reproductive decisions should be detached from reality.

We're seeing the pattern all too common in conservative thought that reproduction is only OK for people as wealthy as, or wealthier than, ourselves; for all others*, it is irresponsible.









*Except our own parents, grandparents and great-grandparents, of course, who were perfectly sensible to have children during world wars, economic depressions, and times of revolution and anarchy.
 
Third-wave feminists and the political correct are getting their marching orders directly from Hillary and Obama! Soon we might even have our first democratic socialist President.

How can anyone have a baby in these uncertain, scary times?
 
Third-wave feminists and the political correct are getting their marching orders directly from Hillary and Obama! Soon we might even have our first democratic socialist President.

How can anyone have a baby in these uncertain, scary times?

Mandatory sterilisation for all, until we are able to predict the future with 100% certainty.

You know it makes sense.
 
We're seeing the pattern all too common in liberal thought that reproductive decisions should be detached from reality.

We're seeing the pattern all too common in conservative thought that reproduction is only OK for people as wealthy as, or wealthier than, ourselves; for all others*, it is irresponsible.

Going back as far as there has been reliable contraception there hasn't been an unplanned birth in my family tree. Furthermore, it's not "as wealthy as ourselves" but not while poor or unsettled.
 
I strongly suspect that if the standard that pregnancy should only be carried to term in the case where the parents know they will be to properly care for child had been practiced then a number of these judgmental posters would not have been born.
 
We're seeing the pattern all too common in conservative thought that reproduction is only OK for people as wealthy as, or wealthier than, ourselves; for all others*, it is irresponsible.

Going back as far as there has been reliable contraception there hasn't been an unplanned birth in my family tree.
So that's what, between one and three generations? Wow! [/unimpressed]
Furthermore, it's not "as wealthy as ourselves" but not while poor or unsettled.
And your unarguable and universally agreed criteria for 'poor' and 'unsettled' are...?

Or do you do like pretty much everybody, and use your personal circumstances as the benchmark?
 
Third-wave feminists and the political correct are getting their marching orders directly from Hillary and Obama! Soon we might even have our first democratic socialist President.

How can anyone have a baby in these uncertain, scary times?

Mandatory sterilisation for all, until we are able to predict the future with 100% certainty.

You know it makes sense.

Definitely. I wonder if angelo made a doctor's appointment yet.
 
One can have as many brats as one wishes. Just don't expect others to feed them! 😕

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One can have as many brats as one wishes. Just don't expect others to feed them! 😕

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The problem is, during the period of conception, I am sure nearly all the genuine refugees did not predict they would be arriving in Europe. Of course economic migrants are another issue. However, we have caused wars in the region and the cost of feeding them is just a fraction of the cost of armaments.
In fact Europeans not involved in the wars should be sending some Syrians to the UK, US and any other allies involved in this war.
 
Third-wave feminists and the political correct are getting their marching orders directly from Hillary and Obama! Soon we might even have our first democratic socialist President.

How can anyone have a baby in these uncertain, scary times?

Mandatory sterilisation for all, until we are able to predict the future with 100% certainty.

You know it makes sense.

So at the outbreak of war, everyone is required to wear a gas mask and a condom. War is unpredictable and it is hard to know what will happen 9 months after the act.
 
Mandatory sterilisation for all, until we are able to predict the future with 100% certainty.

You know it makes sense.

So at the outbreak of war, everyone is required to wear a gas mask and a condom. War is unpredictable and it is hard to know what will happen 9 months after the act.

Yes, according to angelo before, times cannot be uncertain when conceiving children. Now he's talking about something else--whether other people pay for the kids.
 
Sorry this took a while -- tax prep intervened.

I.e., it's customary behavior; that makes it okay.
No, it's a choice that, history shows, has wound up being profitable in the long run. Not always, and not every time, but various reasons it is common enough as a survival strategy that its successes tend to outnumber its failures.
What's your basis for that inference? According the the OP link, Sulaf has five children. If people applying her "survival strategy" average 2.4 children growing up to reproductive age and 2.6 dying in childhood, that will be enough to make it a choice that history will show being common enough to cause the cultures that embrace it to grow and spread and win in the evolutionary struggle for survival among cultures. But its failures will still tend to outnumber its successes.

People have committed genocide in horrible conditions...
Here you are equating "poor people having babies" with "committing genocide" as if they are in ANY WAY equivalent...

Why do I even bother?
Oh, for the love of god! Here I am not "equating" them. Here I am exhibiting a counterexample, thereby demonstrating the invalidity of the inference procedure you used: "Because people have managed to raise and sustain families in horrible conditions in the past and done relatively well for themselves". The circumstance that you can do fairly well for yourself in horrible conditions by doing X is not evidence that X isn't unethical. Learn some logic.

... because denying the utility of those basic imperatives would pretty much negate our entire existence.
Nobody is denying the utility of those basic imperatives; that doesn't mean it's always okay to do them whenever you feel like it no matter the circumstances.
No one said it did. At issue here is whether or not individuals have the right to decide FOR THEMSELVES whether or not the circumstances warrant it or not. A total stranger doesn't have veto power over you and your choices; he can't prevent you from having sex, he can't force you to use birth control, he can't insist that you only do anal, and he sure as hell can't demand that your wife have an abortion.
No, but two things he sure as hell CAN do are (1) call you immoral for making those choices when they're probably going to amount to child abuse, and (2) be right. Where did credoconsolans advocate forced abstinence, forced birth control or forced abortion?

... and then he called you and paid your retainer, oh tireless public defender of the interwebs
You wrote to me, dude. All I did was point out that Don had mistaken a lame ad hominem strawman for a substantive argument.
My irony meter is twitching....
Why is your irony meter twitching? Who are you saying used a lame ad hominem strawman, and where do you feel I mistook it for substantive?

Underseer accused the "right wingers" posting here of thinking Sulaf's baby doesn't "deserve to exist". That was a strawman and an ad hominem. Do you disagree? Don observed that no one had replied after a day, and wrote "*crickets*", implying he thought Underseer's strawman had been a substantive argument. So I pointed out that it wasn't one. Any reason I shouldn't have done that? The rest of our back-and-forth happened because you got on my case -- it's not because I'm a tireless public defender of the interwebs but because I'm defending my own statements. From you. Any further objections?
 
You can't anticipate everything that could go wrong but you can figure what every kid will need. If you're not in a position to provide that be darn careful with the contraception.
Written by someone who does not have any children.

We're seeing the pattern all too common in liberal thought that reproductive decisions should be detached from reality.

We're seeing the pattern all too common in conservative thought that reproduction is only OK for people as wealthy as, or wealthier than, ourselves; for all others*, it is irresponsible.[/size]
We're seeing the pattern that having kids disqualifies us from criticizing other people's choice, and NOT having kids ALSO disqualifies us from criticizing other people's choice.
 
We're seeing the pattern that having kids disqualifies us from criticizing other people's choice, and NOT having kids ALSO disqualifies us from criticizing other people's choice.

No, that's not what you're seeing. What you ARE seeing is a pattern that Loren in particular has established (that some people here have observed--but I have remained silent on) that he makes many many claims about raising a child but doesn't know much about it in practice. That's a context you are either unaware of or left out. Whether that is valid or not, I make no claim, but it is certainly not matching to your claims.

What you're seeing about having children is LUDICROUS claims in the thread about not having kids when there is uncertainty or other extreme claims and then a response implicitly about a hypocritical argument.

You've oversimplified everything though just like you did my comments about Anne Frank's parents. You are being political but pretending to adhere strictly to logical principles, you aren't and it is very transparent to everyone here.
 
There's a widespread feeling that it's unethical to do things that make you temporarily happy but that impose a substantial risk of a permanently unhappy life on a non-volunteering third party. That's pretty much the reason people object to a drunk driver even when he gets lucky and nobody gets hurt. Risking creating a child when you're a refugee or are living near a war zone and have a high likelihood of suddenly needing to become a refugee and are therefore in no position to have reason to believe you're going to be able to give your potential kid favorable odds for having a reasonably happy life imposes just such a substantial risk.
If that were a valid concern half my ancestors would never have been born.
Why on earth do people keep making that argument*? Is producing the particular people now alive the goal of morality? If that were a valid argument it would equally imply that rape isn't a valid concern. None of your or my ancestors would have been born if people never raped each other; do you think the historical requirements for our current existence somehow flow back through time and make rapists good people and make rapes have been all for the best in the long run?

(* Though usually it's expressed in the form "If abortion had been legal I wouldn't be here! Thank goodness it was illegal.")

We're seeing the pattern all too common in conservative thought that reproduction is only OK for people as wealthy as, or wealthier than, ourselves; for all others*, it is irresponsible.

*Except our own parents, grandparents and great-grandparents, of course, who were perfectly sensible to have children during world wars, economic depressions, and times of revolution and anarchy.

I strongly suspect that if the standard that pregnancy should only be carried to term in the case where the parents know they will be to properly care for child had been practiced then a number of these judgmental posters would not have been born.

Why on earth do people keep making that argument, after it has already been refuted upthread? The circumstance that a person has benefited from a wrongdoing, or even only exists in the first place because of the wrongdoing, does not retroactively cause the wrongdoing to have been right.
 
Why on earth do people keep making that argument, after it has already been refuted upthread?
Why are you babbling about "arguments" and "refuted". There is no way to refute that observation without knowing the counterfactual situation.
The circumstance that a person has benefited from a wrongdoing, or even only exists in the first place because of the wrongdoing, does not retroactively cause the wrongdoing to have been right.
Why are you babbling about wrongdoing? There was nothing in my observation about wrongdoing.
 
We're seeing the pattern that having kids disqualifies us from criticizing other people's choice, and NOT having kids ALSO disqualifies us from criticizing other people's choice.

No, that's not what you're seeing. What you ARE seeing is a pattern that Loren in particular has established (that some people here have observed--but I have remained silent on) that he makes many many claims about raising a child but doesn't know much about it in practice. That's a context you are either unaware of or left out. Whether that is valid or not, I make no claim,
Whether that is valid or not, I make no claim either -- I merely observe that he's damned if he does and damned if he doesn't.

but it is certainly not matching to your claims.

What you're seeing about having children is LUDICROUS claims in the thread about not having kids when there is uncertainty or other extreme claims
You say "when there is uncertainty" as though that were a binary variable. Nobody here has ludicrously claimed one ought not to have kids when there is uncertainty. Uncertainty is a continuum. There are levels of uncertainty low enough that it would be ludicrous to offer them as a reason not to have a kid, and there are different levels of uncertainty in which it would be irresponsible to have a kid, and you are glossing over that for the purpose of painting your opponents as having claimed any uncertainty at all makes it irresponsible, when they simply draw the line somewhere you wouldn't. You ought not to do that.

and then a response implicitly about a hypocritical argument.
But the accusation of hypocrisy is a trumped-up charge. Nobody here has actually drawn the line immediately below his own ability to provide, as Bilby accused. And the circumstance that following a given standard would have kept a person from existing does not rationally disqualify that person from favoring that standard -- or do you approve of rape, Mr. Don "descendant-of-a-rape-victim*" 2? So where's the hypocrisy?

(* Everyone is.)

You've oversimplified everything though just like you did my comments about Anne Frank's parents. You are being political but pretending to adhere strictly to logical principles, you aren't and it is very transparent to everyone here.
Now you've gone off the deep end. I didn't say a single word about your comments about Anne Frank's parents. I commented on Underseer's strawman and I commented on your "crickets".

But, since you bring them up, your comments were nonsense. No, Anne Frank was not born during the worst depression in history; that started a few months after she was born. No, one could not predict the outcome of her life with some accuracy. When she was born, Jews weren't being persecuted, her father had a job, and Hitler was still an insignificant crackpot -- and when he took power her parents very responsibly emigrated. They had every reason to think they were giving her at least as good a start in life as the average parents. Bad luck can strike anyone no matter how responsible the parents are; but that's no excuse to pretend the odds don't matter.
 
I strongly suspect that if the standard that pregnancy should only be carried to term in the case where the parents know they will be to properly care for child had been practiced then a number of these judgmental posters would not have been born.

Why on earth do people keep making that argument, after it has already been refuted upthread? The circumstance that a person has benefited from a wrongdoing, or even only exists in the first place because of the wrongdoing, does not retroactively cause the wrongdoing to have been right.
Why are you babbling about "arguments" and "refuted". There is no way to refute that observation without knowing the counterfactual situation.

Why are you babbling about wrongdoing? There was nothing in my observation about wrongdoing.
I strongly suspected that your observation was intended to be pertinent input into the thread's ongoing debate, rather than simply irrelevant noise. Sorry, my bad. Consider the inclusion of your post as an example withdrawn. Apparently I should have instead pointed out that you forgot to write the words "unable" and "a".
 
I strongly suspected that your observation was intended to be pertinent input into the thread's ongoing debate, rather than simply irrelevant noise. ....
Why do you feel the need to provide more babble?

Most people could clearly catch the relevance of my observation. The notion that if people rationally plan cpregnancies there'd be a lot less people now means that the argument that people should rationally plan pregnancy is an argument against observed human nature.
 
I strongly suspected that your observation was intended to be pertinent input into the thread's ongoing debate, rather than simply irrelevant noise. ....
Why do you feel the need to provide more babble?

Most people could clearly catch the relevance of my observation. The notion that if people rationally plan cpregnancies there'd be a lot less people now
Ah, an observation about the non-birth of people in general, made by pointing out the non-birth of "these judgmental posters". Got it.

means that the argument that people should rationally plan pregnancy is an argument against observed human nature.
The prevalence of discrimination everywhere we look means that the argument that people shouldn't discriminate is an argument against observed human nature. And yet you argue against discrimination.

"It's only human nature." - Humphrey Bogart
"Nature, Mr. Allnut, is what we are put in this world to rise above." - Katharine Hepburn
 
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