Ah yes, the good old brainwashing of the Protestant Work Ethic. Rich people just work more!
I will make much more money than a lot of my peers because I was born to a well-off family.
My undergraduate and graduate education was paid out of pocket, I have no debt.
I have a lot of friends that work much harder than me, that make and will always make much less money than me. Probably because they had to take the first shit job they were offered when we graduated, because they had 100,000s of dollars of debt bearing down on them. I was able to just go back home for a year and then to grad school to ride-out the recession, and when I was done with that, my starting salary leapfrogged their current salary even though they have been working for half a decade.
And these are just the rifts inherent between the upper-middle class and the lower-middle class. This doesn't even touch the differences between the truly elite and the rest of us. So yeah, sleep well.
I was mostly talking about ownership. The only for most people to get "rich" is to start a company. Create a disruptive product, grow it from nothing, grow its value, sell - you make big money. The problem is that when you create a new company you are responsible for marketing, engineering, sales, finance, distributions, and everything else. It's a 90 hour a week job. I'll settle working for someone else and only work 40 hours a week. Secondly, for many jobs, the more you work, the more you get paid. For most sales jobs, the more you sell, the more you get paid. People who spend the extra time networking at events at night will generally close more deals that the person having dinner with his family at 5 each night. Same thing with engineers. The ones who put in the extra effort will become more valuable and will get paid more on average.
But my larger point that you might have missed is that I don't care about other people's success. It appears that you had an easier path than me. Bit whoop. I really don't care. Elon Musk can have a 100 cars, doesn't bother me in the least. I want three. That's all. I'm happy for people who desire great success, then work for it, then get it. I was there when I was younger. But I don't need it anymore.
I think that we need to focus on helping people up, not taking people down. Taking away your golden path isn't going to help anyone.