The vast majority of life is not symmetrical. Bacteria and plants are obvious examples.
This entire thread is based on a bias towards Metazoans (and in particular, Bilateria*), that apparently rests only on the OPs personal membership of that particular Kingdom.
The short answer to the OP question is "It isn't".
The long answer is that non-symmetrical Eukaryotes are more common, both in terms of numbers and of biomass, than symmetrical Eukaryotes; and that Prokaryotes, few of which are symmetrical, outmass and outnumber Eukaryotes; so the real question is what has the OP got against, for example, bacteria? I mean, granted, you wouldn't want your daughter to marry a bacterium, but they are most certainly alive. And are rarely symmetrical.