Should sex ed also discuss bondage
Not in highschool.
Safe-word play and asymmetrical relationships (the core primative tools of consensual bondage) are a college level subject, that should be offered for free to anyone, at colllege quality.
The whole point of "no sexing the under-18" is that this is the current social boundary point at which controlled asymmetrical relationships are acknowledged as "possible and not entirely repugnant to participate in as a person in the power-role"
They are still strongly discouraged in any setting of real asymmetry! Prostitution places the asymmetry on reliance for bread, necessity of transaction; rarely does the mixture of optional ongoing freedom from the activity, and desire to engage in it for sustenance meet so as to create a prostitute whose johns have the luxury of not raping them. Bosses have no business sexing their employees. And so on.
Older people have no business sexing significantly younger people because it's not a role at that point, it's a reality of actual asymmetry, perversely enough except when all parties acknowledge an at-will transactional arrangement
I think someone needs to be at least 21, probably older to participate in something like that, or have it gated behind a free 21+ pass/fail class that expects at a minimum regurgitation of the basic knowledge of things that are problematically dangerous, and the predictable, tragic, and all too often comic results of fucking around and finding out.
There are ages at which we say "enough is enough, we expect consequences be observed, and refuse the trouble of preventing those consequences." There are rites of passage at which we start asserting consequences for irresponsibly reckless, dangerous, or violent behavior, and there are classes and understandings we expect people to take up before engaging in what we as a society view as reckless, dangerous, or violent behaviors, usually before those behaviors start getting pursued.
16 year olds stick things in their bums. Probably younger folks, too, but I'm happy with telling them that the discussions about people putting things into their bums on purpose is for older people and that if they think adults are super weird and messed up sometimes, learning more about that core subject (sex and sexuality) is one of the core reasons we get that way, and in an effort to NOT get them quite as messed up, they should hold off on investigating that until they are at least 16, at which point you will answer any questions.
And then immediately rush to a bookstore, buy an orientation and sexuality-agnostic book about anal safety, and tuck it into the bookshelf in the A's before they have the idea to check your library.
Or better yet, already have that book living there on the shelf, because they probably won't listen to you.
Either way, the book will disappear, maybe a little while, maybe forever.
I expect that the biggest problem with Loren's approach would be kids just stealing the books rather than ever checking them out OR returning them. The school probably wouldn't want them back anyway. Every new semester they would need to order a case of them, in paperback only.