For me, freedom of speech is primary and essential to all other rights we hold. We can hold people equal, without freedom of speech, with all equally subjugated under the rule of law that coerces speech, dictates religion and political speech--something that neither of us wants. Or we can uphold freedom of speech/religion and allow everyone the right to protest, to worship or not, in the matter they choose, to write, to speak freely in support of or in protest against government at all levels. This must include accepting abhorrent speech and refusal to speak or write or create something that the creator does not wish to create.
That's how I see it. I realize that no one's mind is being changed on this.
Does freedom of speech to you mean one can
1) lie on the stand about the gov't,
Do the limits on freedom of speech mean one can
1) force someone to get on the stand and confess to what the government accuses him of,
2) force someone to denounce the government's enemy as a terrorist,
3) force someone to step out in front of a mob with a bullhorn and read them the Riot Act,
4) incite insurrection, or
4) force someone to denounce an insurrection and recite a government loyalty oath , or
5) yell fire in a theater or the DMV, or
5) announce that he supports the government's military conscription?*
(* The actual so-called "fire in a theater" case was not about a prohibition on yelling fire in a theater, but about a prohibition on speaking against the draft. Also, the so-called "fire in a theater" case-law was repealed by a later, wiser SCOTUS.)
Point being, you appear to be conflating forced speech with mere censorship.
6) refuse to write a report for one's company which has the legal right to fire you for not doing your job?
Yes, of course it does. Duh. And? Nobody has claimed Smith's nonexistent gay customers should have any legal obligation to pay her for the nonexistent website she didn't write for them.
My point is that there is no absolute freedom of speech. Almost every sane person accepts there are legitimate limits to the extent of free speech.
Almost every sane person accepts that there are a lot fewer legitimate lower limits on what you must say than upper limits on what you may say. Have you forgotten the whole "You have the right to remain silent" thing? If you want your counterexamples to "absolute freedom of speech" to be even vaguely relevant to the discussion at hand, you're going to need examples where it's legitimate for the government to punish people for not saying what it wants them to say.