In fact, to with my previous point,
the moment I became an atheist and rejected my church despite the consequence was watching a church send away an interim pastor when that pastor encouraged the idea of actually considering others in such good faith for the sake of mutual understanding and coming to consensus.
We, as a class of youths in a church, sat with Mormons and
discussed the differences in our faith in what I think is the singular most civil exchange I have ever been a part of with someone of a different set of beliefs and then the man who made that happen was kicked out of the church for it.
I watched exactly that event play out in front of me, effectively
shattering any hope I had that such missionary religions operated in good faith, that anything tied to the power structure and messaging network that made that happen was corrupted to its core!
The leadership conferences? Those taught the kinds of sass we are getting from RIS today, rather than the Socratic dialogue.
"Professing themselves wise, they showed themselves the fool".
RIS, everything you know is wrong. The people who taught you, the ones at the very top? They taught you wrong as a cruel joke, the punchline of which is that you are the foot soldier whose brainwashing keeps them in power. They hate you and laugh at you and hoard your money to inflate their power and influence rather than any sake or purpose of building the "kingdom of heaven here, today, for *everyone*".
I am a person of Matthew 19:12. I am a eunuch devoted to building the kingdom of heaven!
Does your church, however, accept that I am trans? That others are trans? The only difference between a eunuch and a "trans person" is 2000 years of research and the discovery of how to manufacture the hormones we want rather than just removing the ones we don't! Even in Jesus' day, eunuchs commonly lived as women† and *these were the majority made by their own hands*, and *yes* they were devoted to building society up for everyone most times.
And your own religious structures, whatever brainwashing (aka "missionary training" or "leadership conferences" or "Covenant High In Christ") brought you here? I'm pretty sure it doesn't look kindly on people like me, who are exactly the ones your own prophet told you to accept!
You,
@RIS, need to first strive to understand us, our beliefs or lack thereof, and how we operate in such a state as we do, in reasonable faith in each other rather than in a god, and how this nonetheless creates situations where such *atheists* still pursue "the kingdom of heaven, here, now, for everyone", and *secular* arguments that this is the right thing to do!
†I am a eunuch, though; one of the few who want "neither" rather than "the other", however the trans girls I know tend to go harder on the secular kingdom of heaven thing than I do, even. See also: Hijra (the Indian eunuch community)