Ask any child, be they "queer" or straight, whether they'd rather be celebrated and loved, or dehumanized and abused. You'll find there is pretty clear consensus.
Ask any child if they would throw rocks at puppies if doing so would get them their parent's love and attention, and you're going to get a clear consensus.
That's actually part of the problem - any child who says they're queer or trans is immediately love-bombed, and celebrated as special and brave and wonderful and beautiful. They are given a non-stop reward of positive attention for doing so. Children observe that when other kids say they're trans, those kids get attention and love and celebration and praise.
Children are incentivized to identify as trans.
Children are not praised for simply being the sex they are. They're also not dehumanized and abused for simply being the sex they are. And these days, pretty much zero kids are being abused if they say they're trans. The closest you get to that is a parent who refuses to indulge their child when doing so has long term negative health affects, and wants their kid to go through a normal healthy puberty and become a full adult.