You know, I think we have done this dance before.....
So, you are opposed to argument, which means "To give the reasons for your opinion about the truth of something or to explain why you believe something." That is just the kind of intellectual and emotional weakness that the guy in the video assumes is true of theists and thus makes them the same as children who believe in Santa. OTOH, it makes sense for theists to oppose reasoning and explanation since all theism is based on faith, and faith is the very definition of anti-reason. Theism is based only in the person wanting the idea to be true, and that is a rather embarrassing fact to admit, so theists oppose such discussions.
The primary definition of argument according to the dictionary is “an exchange of diverging or opposite views, typically a heated or angry one”. I do not have any objections to an exchange of our different views and when I have the time to participate I actually enjoy the discussions – but devolving to angry retorts and insults is a waste of time so I refuse to participate in that. No one is ever swayed from their personal position by someone who just wants to scream insults. Does this make me intellectually weak? I don't think so.
Would you take seriously and listen to someone who called you stupid – a moron – an idiot? I don't. They are welcome to their viewpoint but there is no reason for me to accept their conclusions or offer them any encouragement to continue.
Not quite. He dishonestly equates any and all rational philosophical discussion about God's improbability with simply calling theists "stupid", which a strawman way of making all rational discussion about God "impolite". Ironically, most religious conservatives hate it when schools or parents won't tell kids they are wrong about various thing, but then scream about being persecuted when atheists point out that they are wrong.
I do agree that his attitude at times was rather condescending, but there were certain phrases he used which stuck with me. His exact words from part of his talk included “How lacking in compassion would I be to go up to somebody who is a believer and rub their nose in their ignorance. Look how stupid you are. What a moron. What an idiot you are to believe in God....how stupid of you.” “I've never understood atheists who go around belittling people who believe in God.”
My take on his explanation was that he was discussing atheists who spend their life denigrating every believer they ever encounter. I did not take it to mean that he was saying atheists should never disagree with a believer; if that was his intent, I think he missed his mark. His point seemed to be that atheists should not make it their life's mission to deconvert every believer. That does not mean you never disagree with someone.
Yet another falsehood he claims. Believe determines action, and thus impacts others. Theism has massive impact on others. It has been the primary basis on which people have been killed, tortured, and denied basic human and civil right throughout history and at this moment. The Bible explicitly and repeatedly advocates murder, genocide, wife abuse, and torture of anyone that doubts its baseless claims. Along with the Quran, the Bible and the institutions that promote them remain the primary engine in the world behind racism, sexism, and homophobia. This is not incidental or an "abuse" of religion. The values of mindless authoritarian obedience are inherent to monotheism. Worship of a God with unelected unquestionable authority whose mere will dictates what is "good" inherently promotes authoritarian social and political systems as is proven by centuries of data.
I disagree with your conclusions about all historical and current religions. Every religion (and atheism too!) has its adherents who demand that everyone believe as they do and will use violence to further their aims. This is not limited to religious belief. You see the same thing in the sovereign citizen movement, the tax protest movement, and racial movements. It is a human failing, not a religious issue.
Plus, the anti-rational faith that belief in God requires devalues cultural support for reason and science, leading to untold harms to everyone due to the failure to apply scientific knowledge to policy.
Again, I disagree. You are taking the most extreme right wing position in religious belief and stating it is the norm. Not the case at all in either historical or current times. The Jesuits were and are very highly regarded for their scientific advances and their promotion of education, and many of our current mathematical theories were discovered/invented by ancient Islamic scholars. On a personal note, I have many highly educated friends and acquaintances in differing faith communities who are appalled (as am I) by those of the fundamentalist persuasion who live their lives striving for a theocracy in line with their beliefs. We have no problem telling them that we strongly disagree with their viewpoints on education, government and the role of religion in public life.
I could go on, but you have already said you are opposed to people giving reasons and explanations, so why bother.
I don't remember ever saying anything like that. Can you show me where I stated I was opposed to reasons or explanations?
Ruth