How stressful and fucking infuriating! I'm so angry on your behalf right now. Holy crap. I hope it all works out soon and you guys get some peace.
Thanks. These schools were never helpful and often hurtful when my daughter was really acting up. When she was 11 she would try to beat up her younger brothers. She would kick us. She has kicked so many holes in the walls of her room and of course the schools blamed us and never understood her primary diagnosis of Reactive Attachment Disorder (RAD). It's a rare condition but very common among kids who are removed from bio-parents for abuse and neglect and then festered in foster care. She came to us at 3.5 years old with full blown RAD. The school objected that we limited and supervised her play with her younger brothers, ignoring the fact that she would try to beat them up if we weren't watching. The Department of Children and Families did get it once our army of therapists and social workers explained and DCF told the school to start to cooperate but they never did.
DMH was largely useless.
She's finally straightening herself out but everyone still wrongly presumes that we are horrible.
I am so sick of brain dead school personnel, untrained cops and useless DMH.
I personally hope that when the teacher and principal get the fax from our daughter's attorney that the person is shamed to shit. I hate to wish a heart attack on anyone but I wouldn't cry about it.
Two days ago our attorney received from the school's attorney the back and forth emails from school staff regarding how they got the cops to come to our house. They didn't believe my daughter when she told the police that she preferred to isolate in the tent, with heat, electricity, Wifi, the run of our back yard and woods, rather than isolating in her room bored stiff. Recall my daughter did a dumb thing and went shopping without a mask and possibly exposing herself. She's 19.5 years old.In case she was to get C19 she isolated in the tent.
Worse they were cheering themselves for urging the police to file a 51a against me and my wife with the department of children and families that because my 19.5 year old daughter was isolating in the tent we might be abusing out 18 year old and 17 year old sons. Apparently the police did file but since it has been in excess of two weeks now apparently DCF screened it out (tossed it in the trash).
I can't tell you how furious I am with these scumbags at the school!
My daughter also read the materials and words she used include:
Furious, angry, betrayed, harassed, and disrespected by the school and police.
It was 4 days after those internal school emails were dated that the school principal received the stern letter from our and our daughter's attorney.
I don't fear that anything further will happen to us.
I am out for revenge against the school principal, the school district coordinator, my daughter's teacher and school therapist who were all in on this.clapping themselves on the back for trying to terrorize us and our daughter and boys.
The principal is also a part time staff at a private company there our kids have gone for group therapy. If they ever open again he will hear from me in person.
But I want revenge on all of those school staff and so does my daughter.
I do hope that after getting the stern letter from my daughter's attorney they learned how they really fucked up. But I doubt they have such introspection.