Derec
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Because you are saying that it is ok for the poor to waste their money (and perpetuate their poverty) through frivolous lifestyle purchases.I am? How?
You're telling me that some poor people make what look like bad choices. I'm asking why this is an occasion for moral outrage.
The only moral outrage is the one in the OP (language like "America fights the poor") of this thread and in the WaPo article.
Not nearly to the same extent as it would the profligate and irresponsible.And a factory closure will knock out the thifty and frugal alike.
It makes a difference if you manage your debt levels, build savings, get education vs. get ever deeper into debt, have no savings to speak of and sit on your high school dropout ass instead of getting a GED at least. It's not just the sofa, although it's a big chunk ($3k wasted, enough to buy an older model used car outright).That's the point of the analogy. In a landscape of historically low income, widespread part time working and tight credit, you reckon the real issue is that poor people in general spend too much on sofas?
No they can't. You are still better off having made good decisions vs. bad.And financial hits can make good decisions irrelevant.
If you don't have a full time job you have no business buying expensive furniture and then complaining how broke you are to a national newspaper.Either way, whether you can get a full-time job is more important than what sofa you buy.
I am complaining about them getting expensive, fancy new furniture when there are much less expensive new furniture options available. I am complaining about them doing it through an even more expensive rent-to-own deal when they should have saved to pay cash for it. They could have had new furniture and saved at least $3,000 if they'd been smarter about their money. That's my whole point. Most of their problems stem from the fact that they are just not making good financial decisions.Yes you are. You are specifically and exactly complaining about them gaining new furniture, because you feel that they can't afford it, and that because they are poor they shouldn't have it.
All people should live within their means, not beyond it. That is not exclusive to poor people, it's just that the lower your income is the lower your means are and the lower your standard of living will be. It may not be pretty, but poor people are not served well with advice to live it up, not care about their financial limitations and live beyond their means. That only ensures that they will remain poor for the long term, instead of improving their financial situation.Poor people shouldn't have nice things. They should have poor things, to save money and reflect their status. It's not a pretty conclusion.
It's not one decision, although that one has a particularly high price tag ($4,150). No, the article mentions several othersSure, but we don't compromise all the time. You're taking one decision, and claiming that they should have compromised on that. Has anyone ever done that to you?
- adding more rent-to-own stuff to their Buddy's bill. Including buying a new smart phone when they struggle to pay their phone bill.
- smoking. Not only expensive but bad for their health. The wife complains of psoriasis when smoking can cause and exacerbate psoriasis.
- not finishing high school. The wife complains of not being able to find a job with her 9th grade education but she makes no efforts to rectify that by getting her GED and maybe going to a community or technical college to learn some marketable skills.
Good for you. I did shop office supplies stores of course but this was the best deal for the type of chair I was looking for.Sucker. I got an office chair from staples, marked down once for being end of the line and unsold, and marked down again for being the display model. The store manager was so desperate to get rid of it they threw in free delivery. But not all my buying decisions are like that.
I don't know about that. There is a store here in Atlanta and I got some pieces there, including a desk several years ago and have seen no issues with humidity.Ikea is, or so I'm told, not well regarded in the South. Something about the designs being unsuited to high humidity?
But IKEA is just an example as it is a well known international brand. But there are other affordable furniture stores.
If by nice you mean expensive then yes.So.. you do have a problem with them being poor and having nice things.
They are all interrelated and all contribute their share. Low pay is related to education. Predatory lending is the last refuge of those that have ruined their credit (solution - rebuild your credit to be offered better financing terms). Obamacare is helping with healthcare (although southern states tend to do their best to hinder it of course by for example refusing Medicare expansion or to set up state exchanges) but much of health is related to one's choices,. like smoking and diet.And are the problems of the rural poor in the south down to low pay, an excess of part-time contracts, little or no social safety net, poor health cover and predatory lending, or is it down to a rash of sofa-buying?
Frivolous purchases that one can't afford definitely add to the problem.
If they continue acting like they do they have no real way out. Which is why I am so frustrated with you defending their decisions. As you say they have little in the way of means, but they need to learn to live within them. Then there is much they can doI'm not convinced that's what we're looking at. We're just looking at people with very little in the way of means, and no real way out.
- set the $3,000 saved from the furniture purchase over time as savings or to pay off other debts etc.
- wife should get her GED for starters. Find a job even if part time.
- recognize that truck driving work is unsteady and set extra money earned when the business is good for living expenses when the work is slower.
That's what I've been saying!Look, they could buy the sofa outright by saving money.
Why would it cost him his livelihood? And why would it damage their home? Please be specific.After a year or two of no sofa, which might cost the manual labourer his livelihood and damage their home,
Why should a $500 or $600 sofa be crappy? May not have leather or built in recliner but it should be solid enough.they could afford a crappy sofa which may or may not last a while.
Sounds like a solid, financially sound plan. Just like they could get a nice new car and enjoy it until it gets repo-ed.Or they can get a nice sofa now, and enjoy it until they suffer from a minor disaster, can't afford the payments, and have to return it to the store.
Really?I can see why you might feel the former is better, but the latter isn't totally irrational.
Yes. To the tune of $3,000 in savings vs. buying decent furniture for cash. Actually more as they admit going to the store to pay their bill (in person? why? No internet or US Postal Service where they live?) they are tempted to add more stuff to their bill. I must admit, it's a great business model - for the store.Are their lives likely to change if they refrain from sofa-renting?
Or less.Or will it stay more or less the same until he gets more work?