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When my Gf wakes me up with a blow job

 
 
 
I have wondered about this, myself, during some of the discussions here.

If we're being serious I suspect we all know what our loved ones like and don't like. It's only an issue when you have said "I NEVER WANT YOU TO DO THAT AGAIN!"

Personally, I would report it when your next door neighbour wakes you up in this fashion.
 
spikepipsqueak said:
I have wondered about this, myself, during some of the discussions here.

If we're being serious I suspect we all know what our loved ones like and don't like. It's only an issue when you have said "I NEVER WANT YOU TO DO THAT AGAIN!"

Personally, I would report it when your next door neighbour wakes you up in this fashion.
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If my next door neighbor does it and I enjoy it should I feel bad about it because I'm a victim?
 
Arctish said:
NobleSavage said:
Should I report the rape?
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Yes.
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I can see the conversation now:

Noble: i want to report a rape.
Officer: Okay - what are the details
Noble: I got woken up by my girlfriend giving me a blow job.
Officer: (looks up with sarcasm on his face) You are telling me that you are reporting every man's fantasy... now tell me about the rape..
:p
 
gmbteach said:
Arctish said:
NobleSavage said:
Should I report the rape?
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Yes.
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I can see the conversation now:

Noble: i want to report a rape.
Officer: Okay - what are the details
Noble: I got woken up by my girlfriend giving me a blow job.
Officer: (looks up with sarcasm on his face) You are telling me that you are reporting every man's fantasy... now tell me about the rape..
:p
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If NobleSavage calls it rape, who are we to quibble about how many other guys wouldn't? :p
 
Apparently you didn't say no or tried to resist so you'll have to live with the memory.
 
NobleSavage said:
Should I report the rape?
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I had a girlfriend who would do this once in a while without my affirmative consent, and honestly, I didn't care for it much, and would tell her to wait for another time. She continued to do it off and on over the course of the year we were together. When I "wake up with wood", it usually means I have to pee, and its a bit uncomfortable until I hit the toilet (and the wall and the floor and the vanity...lol). Also, I feel sorta stinky and sweaty in the morning when I first wake up and don't want someone poking their face around "down there" until I'm more presentable. Also, (TMI coming...) there's usually a big fart waiting to get out after 8 hours of sleep. I'm always afraid I'm going to accidentally let it rip when she's pleasuring me. Which could be kinda funny in a way, but that's not good for the relationship!!

I guess technically you could say I was repeatedly "raped", after I told her it several times not to do it. I don't feel like a victim though, or call myself a "rape survivor" or see a therapist. I don't wake up in a cold sweat, curl up in a fetal position under the covers and sob uncontrollably over it. Am I supposed to? Rape is supposed to be a fate more horrible than murder according to some people. If anything, what she did was just a minor annoyance. Much like her leaving wet towels on the bed or something. I certainly didn't want to ruin her life by calling the cops or taking her to court.
 
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Nice Squirrel said:
Apparently you didn't say no or tried to resist so you'll have to live with the memory.
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He didn't explicitly say "yes" either and under "affirmative consent" rules he'd have to say "yes" about a dozen times - every time she starts something different. It's complicated stuff and of course, if he had any trace of alcohol from last night, he can't even say "yes" - it's automatically rape. </radfem>
 
Derec said:
Nice Squirrel said:
Apparently you didn't say no or tried to resist so you'll have to live with the memory.
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He didn't explicitly say "yes" either and under "affirmative consent" rules he'd have to say "yes" about a dozen times - every time she starts something different. It's complicated stuff and of course, if he had any trace of alcohol from last night, he can't even say "yes" - it's automatically rape. </radfem>
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Why stop at blow job? How about if you have a nocturnal erection (it is a common thing to happen when sleeping for most guys) and she wakes you up by straddling and having you penetrate her. THAT is a hell of a way to wake up. Now, imagine its that neighbour. Report the rape?
 
Derec said:
Nice Squirrel said:
Apparently you didn't say no or tried to resist so you'll have to live with the memory.
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He didn't explicitly say "yes" either and under "affirmative consent" rules he'd have to say "yes" about a dozen times - every time she starts something different. It's complicated stuff and of course, if he had any trace of alcohol from last night, he can't even say "yes" - it's automatically rape. </radfem>
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Actually you are wrong, but you don't care. Keep the outrage fires burning!
 
thebeave said:
I guess technically you could say I was repeatedly "raped", after I told her it several times not to do it. I don't feel like a victim though, or call myself a "rape survivor" or see a therapist. I don't wake up in a cold sweat, curl up in a fetal position under the covers and sob uncontrollably over it. Am I supposed to? Rape is supposed to be a fate more horrible than murder according to some people. If anything, what she did was just a minor annoyance. Much like her leaving wet towels on the bed or something. I certainly didn't want to ruin her life by calling the cops or taking her to court.
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Yeah, I would call it rape. You told her not to, she did it anyway. She clearly does not have consent.
 
Loren Pechtel said:
thebeave said:
I guess technically you could say I was repeatedly "raped", after I told her it several times not to do it. I don't feel like a victim though, or call myself a "rape survivor" or see a therapist. I don't wake up in a cold sweat, curl up in a fetal position under the covers and sob uncontrollably over it. Am I supposed to? Rape is supposed to be a fate more horrible than murder according to some people. If anything, what she did was just a minor annoyance. Much like her leaving wet towels on the bed or something. I certainly didn't want to ruin her life by calling the cops or taking her to court.
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Yeah, I would call it rape. You told her not to, she did it anyway. She clearly does not have consent.
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Funny how times have changed. That was almost 20 years ago now. Never did it even cross my mind to call what she did rape. I think she was a bit naive and assumed that any time you see an erect penis, it means the guy is ready for action. Perhaps she just didn't believe me, or was determined to get her own gratification (i.e. she liked "giving") despite my displeasure. Hard to accept that she was a rapist. She was actually pretty nice, and probably the least crabby girlfriend I had.
 
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