Okay, but that does not explain why a lot of “ you” support Trump who does not look like how the Democrats “used to be”.
Listen to Tulsi Gabbard in the video. Her own voice and not some BS commentary by myself or anyone else. That video of her is not that long and it is her voice answering perfectly what you are asking.
But if that is not enough for you, listen to Nicole Shanahan in her own words tell you what the Democrat party has become. The beginning intro and see time stamp 44:20 to 47:00. What the Democrats have become is why RFK jr almost had to go with Trump.
I suspect neither of these women would be huge Trump fans but what the Democrats have become is far far worse.