You mean "in our own
minds". Solipsist people don't have heads. And there has to be just one of them. Me.
Well, I can read that. The nurse let me.
As to Watts' view that Now is all there is- we should consider the similarities between that and B Theory. Isn't Now always extant, and thus itself eviternal? (Hard to speak about these topics, since our languages are time-dependent.) If Now trails the past behind it "like the wake of a ship", then what is the ocean in which the ship moves?
Well, I guess that's the crucial point in our normal sense of time. Time as a set of instants, possibly infinite, and possibly similar to the Reals. And then you have to have nows as extended instants, intervals of time, that we experience in succession. Nows don't have to be actual intervals of time but there has to be a relation.
And I would be open to the B-theory if our normal sense of time can be accommodated within that theory.
My own, tentative, view is that we exist within infinite diversity, that can be grouped in infinite combinations. (Thus my avatar.) The past we've traced out is determined, but our future is a vast spread of possible interactions, and we have some limited freedom and choice over and among those interactions. And that is true for every existing thing, perhaps even down to the level of individual particles; and perhaps every single one of those possible paths get traversed, as in Many Worlds theory. That would make time an n-dimensional field, rather than a single dimension. But, again, I don't claim to be absolutely certain of this; I'm a pantheist, but cognizant of my own personal lack of omniscience.
As that video says, "I am omnipotent insofar as I am the universe; but I am not omnipotent in the role of Alan Watts. Only cunning."
I'm OK with any topology for the time dimension. Multi-dimensional, arborescent, fractal, you name it, as long as you can fit our ordinary sense of time within that conceptual framework. Me, I would say the topology is the easy bit. To some extent, it's a question of imagination (and, OK, expertise). I guess you can always select for a really smooth local geometry that fits the requirements.
The difficult bit, as always with qualia, would be to connect how time feels to us with any putative quantitative interpretation.
Or maybe we just assume that how time feels to us is irrelevant.
EB