Toni
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What hate? I just think people with children are getting enough benefits as it is.That's ok. The purpose of posting the topic was to provide Derec with a forum to spew his venomous hate.
Part of me wants to ask you what those 'enough benefits' are and part of me wants to say that the joys of raising children are benefit enough but that's not the point of those benefits.
The point of providing benefits to parents is to encourage people to have children. And..also to encourage parents with children to both work which means that they need childcare and decent childcare is hella expensive but if you pull all the women out of the economy to take care of kids, the economy would really collapse. Same if you pull out all of the men to take care of kids.
We need people to have children at at least the replacement rate if we wish to have our society continue. And we need those children to be raised well, with good nutrition, good education, good housing, good health care.
The truth is that having young children is a relatively short period of one's life and it coincides with the part of your life when you are setting the foundation for your career and economic well being--which directly conflicts with raising children. But if one parent stays home full time or mostly full time for 10+ years raising young children and then takes only work with flexible hours and the correspondingly lower pay, you have half of your population unable to provide decently for themselves at age 50 and beyond. Obviously, I'm talking about middle class people here because no one really cares about working class and poor people.