Toni
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The biggest issues with our house are 1) location. I have a love/hate relationship with my town. It's beautiful, it's walkable, it's small enough that people greet me by name at the bank and recognize me at the grocery stores, my neighbors are nice, and there are some cultural things that happen in town that are enjoyable. The downside is that it is geographically far from any larger town, much less a real city, meaning that my options for things such as eating out or shopping are much more limited than I'd like. True even though we've never been big on eating out and I really don't need much and indeed, am getting rid of stuff. I'm far from my best friends and while we make an effort to see each other a couple of times a year or more, we also are all getting older. I don't know how long this will continue. My best friend doesn't feel able to drive the distance (8-9 hrs) by herself anymore. I'm fine driving that but I know that has an expiration date. I don't know what we will do when we don't feel comfortable doing that much driving anymore. It will be a true loss.
2) Biggest issue in terms of practicality: Our house is lovely and is close to the way I want it to be but it is not and never will be a good home for old people. There is no real possibility of first floor living without dramatically disrupting the flow of the main level that I've already dumped tons of money into to make it attractive and functional as most people would use it. Living here has an expiration date and I'm not sure when. For a while, I did a lot of online shopping in the metropolitan area where 3 of the kids live. To get what I want (smaller, up to date, first floor living in a decent neighborhood) would cost 2-3 times what our home is worth. Frankly, most of what I saw was 2-3 times what our home is worth and I'd still want to do at least $100K to make it look/function the way I want it to. So---it's not really affordable. Well, it's really not affordable. I don't need fancy but I do need clean, easy to care for, and classic. I look at a lot of floor plans online as well and nope, I have to make changes there as well. Why won't people put sinks under windows anymore?? Why are all kitchens open into living spaces? I am certain I am not the only messy cook in the world. Sigh.
2) Biggest issue in terms of practicality: Our house is lovely and is close to the way I want it to be but it is not and never will be a good home for old people. There is no real possibility of first floor living without dramatically disrupting the flow of the main level that I've already dumped tons of money into to make it attractive and functional as most people would use it. Living here has an expiration date and I'm not sure when. For a while, I did a lot of online shopping in the metropolitan area where 3 of the kids live. To get what I want (smaller, up to date, first floor living in a decent neighborhood) would cost 2-3 times what our home is worth. Frankly, most of what I saw was 2-3 times what our home is worth and I'd still want to do at least $100K to make it look/function the way I want it to. So---it's not really affordable. Well, it's really not affordable. I don't need fancy but I do need clean, easy to care for, and classic. I look at a lot of floor plans online as well and nope, I have to make changes there as well. Why won't people put sinks under windows anymore?? Why are all kitchens open into living spaces? I am certain I am not the only messy cook in the world. Sigh.