I've been pulled over a number of times for violating the speed limit. I know that they ran my plates and my license after I
Did you know that they ran your plates before they pulled you over?
Did you have an outstanding warrant?
Were you credibly accused of possessing an illegal firearm?
If your answer to any or all of these questions is "No", then your anecdote is irrelevant.
Then there's another question. You're white and female, IIRC. I don't know when this happened, so I'll stick with "over a certain age" at the time.
Black males Wright's age are statistically about 60 times more likely to commit a violent act than middle aged white women*. That doesn't mean that any particular YBM is extremely violent. But it's statistically relevant, if a cop is trying to do their job and also get home alive to their family.
Tom
*This is based on FBI statistics, published online, from 2014.