Harry Bosch
Contributor
I will never fully appreciate what it is to live as a black person in the United States. To be a black father raising a child who is coming into understanding of how blacks are perceived by so many whites, as if just raising a child and keeping them on track isn't enough to deal with. To live every day with the anxiety of wondering how you and your family might be treated in a white society, of just going to a restaurant or any of a number of weekend social activities. Not outwardly racist acts but the subtleties of so often being seated near the restrooms while dining out or wait staff you always have to struggle to get the attention of because they just happen to never be looking in your direction or the extra precautions you take just driving or stopping along the side of the road. I'll try to understand and appreciate what a black person deals with on a daily basis but at the end of the day, I get to drive home as a white man.
But I get it. White people see news reporting on TV and the internet of angry blacks rioting. It's memorable. The end.
What you just described there is also how people who wear MAGA hats feel when they go out as well.
Oh brother. If you don't want people thinking that you are a bigot in public, simply take off your hat.