Jarhyn
Wizard
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- Natural Philosophy, Game Theoretic Ethicist
There's an idea in my head, half-formed. Essentially, "judgement is a fool's errand."I think eating beef is not good for the environment but eat it anyway. IMO, we all can have our little character flaws, and do not have to try to be saints. Trying to be saints has turned many places into hells of a sort. OTOH, there are minor character flaws and major ones. Treating people like property was a major flaw. Also, one can be progressive for one's time, and later have the same POVs viewed as regressive. Maybe we should judge people based on their times and the social standards that prevailed during their times.
I fully understand there are as Swammerdami points out a number of things about life in our era which even today I find reprehensible, but also inescapable. Eating meat is one of those things.
We can not only judge the past by the standards of today but judge today by the standards of the future, because anyone with half a brain can mostly already see what many, though not all, of those standards will be.
Really, though, it's a fool's errand to say "this person violated" or "this person didn't".
Instead, we should ask "how hard did this person work to identify rather than justify their violations, and minimize them where they could?"
That's all we can ask of anyone is to put in the work that can be expected of them to improve.
Indeed, the destination is entirely unattainable and to try too hard to attain it too quickly or too completely will only ever result, as you say, in pain.
Edit: as Gospel points out, though, I'm pretty sure MOST of us have in fact been able to avoid raping folks.
Even so, go back far enough and rape was commonplace, and indeed it could be easy to be born into a situation where it is inevitable that someone would be required to rape someone else. As awful and tragic as that is, I would as soon prefer to judge folks on how they learned to resist evil, both from within and suggestions from their peers.