I can't speak to Christianity. But I can say this. You guys need to stop saying "the Bible", The Bible", "The Bible". It's what the particular religion teaches about the Bible. So Judaism <> to the Old Testament and Christianity <> to the New Testament. I don't know enough about Christianity.
But you cannot speak for Judaism by saying the Torah says. It's not what the Torah says. It's how Jews interpret what it says. So, I think the US Constitution says you need to be part of a well regulated Militia to have a gun. The U.S. Supreme court interprets the U.S. Constitution otherwise and that is the law of the land.
Let's look at an eye for an eye, a tooth for a tooth, a hand for a hand, a foot for a foot; a burn for a burn, a wound for a wound, a bruise for a bruise." (Exodus 21:24-25). Aside from the Pithy saying in Fiddler on the Roof that the whole world would be blind and toothless, No where is there any indication this was ever done and Jewish Law speaks only of monetary compensation
Now let's take a look at the death penalty. There are 36 crimes punishable by death. The Torah is clear about that. Yet, despite the Torah Text clearly indicating the death penalty. Jewish Law put's so many road blocks in the way as to prevent the death penalty from every being carried out. In order for the death penalty to be carried out:
According to the Mishnah, capital cases had to be decided by a Sanhedrin of 23 judges.
If the conviction in a capital case was unanimous, the accused was acquitted.
Perhaps most onerous of all, the offense had to be witnessed by two people who warned the perpetrator immediately prior to committing the act that it was a capital offense.
Such stringencies are often understood to account for the famous Mishnah passage that states that if a Sanhedrin executed one person in seven years, it was considered destructive. Rabbi Elazar Ben Azariah objects that the standard is actually once in 70 years, and Rabbis Tarfon and Akiva say that had they served on the court, no one would have ever been executed.
So basically despite what the text says, Judaism interprets differently.
My point is you are free to differ with the teachings of any religion, Differ with the teachings not the texts. All text's need interpretation. That is why there are courts, to determine what texts mean, And one final thing:
The Sixth Commandment says:
לֹא תִרְצָח ..... DO NOT MURDER
It doesn't say ......DO NOT KILL......