His child is not old enough to be a man.
Ah, so my advocacy is not on behalf of men and boys but only men.
Where do you get the idea that I think that?
Because in response to my pointing out how wrong the gag order was, you wrote:
"Right, because the child's welfare is less important than the man's right to publicly complain about his situation"
as if I had been talking about a right to air the details publically.
Well, he could simply avoid the problem by referring to his child.
I did not ask what he could do to avoid violating it. I asked if you thought it was reasonable that a private conversation with another adult should be censored.
And talking about choosing the name is not referring to the child as a daughter, so your examples are not valid.
Perhaps you have conversations in a different way to most human beings, but when my sisters and brother talk about their children to me, they use pronouns.
Do you think it is reasonable for the father to be ordered to use the 'correct' pronouns when talking about his child in private conversations?
Do I think it is reasonable in the sense of protecting the child's welfare - absolutely yes. Do I think it is reasonable to expect this particular man to abide by it - yes.
Excellent: that's what I wanted to know. You think it is reasonable for the State to violate this man's freedom of speech and freedom of conscience during private conversations.
In fact, in your linked article, he managed to not call his child a girl or she for a year.
I am glad he was able to comply with the State's censorship regime and so escaped punishment for the year of his compliance.
Frankly, at this point, the apparent custodial parent thinks it is in the child's best interest to undergo that treatment and the courts agree. I am sorry he is upset, but he needs to keep his issues to himself (like an adult) if he really wants to keep a positive relationship with his child.
I thought men were supposed to be encouraged to talk about their emotional problems. (Not to women, obviously, that would introduce emotional labour on the women). But, I am glad to see that you think men should suck up whatever emotions they are having, "like an adult".
However difficult this is for him, I strongly suspect this is much more difficult for his child to go through even with support. The child does not need his selfish antics making it worse.
What technological solutions can we implement that will monitor his continued compliance with the gag order in private conversations? I like the Inner Party's 'telesecreen' solution that could be monitoring your speech and behaviour at all times, though of course training children to dob in relatives is a good supplementary method.