Sabine Grant
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So far the possible reasons invoked in this thread are the product of negative stereotyping of an entire ethnic group. As a reminder such negative stereotyping sets the stage for a prejudicial state of mind. Whether it be the STD bit or violence bit or financial status bit. The only reason I would accept as legitimate would be the case of a prostitute who was raped by a black man and that because her repulsion would be the direct result of PTSD. Considering the Op mentioned not just one but several instances of ads mentioning "no black men", I am somewhat skeptical that all those ads were the product of rape victims prostitutes experiencing PTSD.But you don't know the reason. Maybe it's a constellation of reasons. Do you reject all of these reasons as legitimate?
I am also wondering how many prostitutes who were rape victims would be able to pursue their profession without a persistent fear towards men in general. In a professional setting such as a brothel where sex workers are not isolated, it certainly provides a sense of safety. However, not the case for an independent sex worker who will meet prospective clients "off the streets", in a motel room or other locale.
I am rather certain that what I specifically worded above as " Can you tell me in the history of mankind when "no black X or Y" has popped up and it was not the product of a culturally induced ideology based on the belief that members of the specific black ethnicity are inferior to the dominant white ethnicity? Triggering racial discrimination and segregation targeting Blacks" was meant to address the documented reality of an entire society producing laws and legislation legalizing racial segregation and racial discrimination affecting the specific ethnic group "Blacks". Rather certain that it was addressing a society feeding on a culturally induced ideology governing the type of laws and legislation enabling the institutionalization of racial discrimination and racial segregation. That it had NOTHING to do with a matter of aesthetics. Further, in a previous post, I recognized the difference between aesthetics and the culturally induced rejection of an entire ethnic group being 2 completely different motivations.Can you tell me how many instances in the history of mankind when "no black X or Y" has popped up and it was not the product of a culturally induced ideology based on the belief that members of the specific black ethnicity are inferior to the dominant white ethnicity? Triggering racial discrimination and segregation targeting Blacks.
If I got a stripper for my birthday, I'd want it to be a white-European looking man. I am much less aesthetically attracted to Asian and Black men.
Does it follow that my parents taught me that Asians and Blacks were inferior to my Whiteness? No, it does not.
The reason that were invoked in this thread were based on negative stereotyping of an entire ethnic group designated as Black. Setting the stage for a racially prejudiced state of mind. Again, if a matter of aesthetics such as in your case where like many other people the physical characteristics escorting Asian and Black are not a trigger for physical attraction to them, it is not the product of negative stereotyping inducing a prejudicial state of mind. Obviously, your preference is not the product of " Asians/Blacks carry STDs, they are susceptible to be violent, etc....".Again, if racial discrimination and segregation are not the product of a culturally induced mind state, what would be their cause?
There is no single cause of a complex social phenomenon. A two year old can burst into tears if she sees someone with a facial deformity in public, never having been exposed to such a thing, and without her parents 'teaching' her to be uncomfortable with facial deformities. Nature -- since you seem obsessed with 'natural' causes -- may have equipped us to prefer similarity with ourselves. When you see a prostitute advertising 'no blacks', you sure seem confident that you know that whatever reason she has, it's illegitimate.
I am also rather certain that nations who legalized racial segregation and discrimination targeting the specific ethnic group "Blacks" were not motivated by "nature" having "equipped" them "to prefer" "similarity with "themselves. I suppose we could start a thread in the WH Forum exploring the motivations behind European colonialism and under such colonialism the why and how native populations were duly exploited and treated as sub humans.
And I contend that the "actuarial" reasons are highly prejudicial as they rely on negative stereotyping of an ethnic group.What is the most probable motivation behind anyone stating "no blacks" while not dismissing the number of times various societies and cultures have set multiple precedents of "no blacks" being the direct product of a mind state which was culturally induced and promoting race supremacy?
I don't know. Up until today, I didn't even know prostitutes did that. But someone in the thread has already stated any number of reasons. They might be personal (e.g. the prostitute has been raped by a Black man and is traumatically triggered by sexual intimacy with them) or they might be actuarial (Black men are more likely to have STDs, Black men have fewer financial resources, etc).
Can you please pay attention to the context which includes one statement or the other? I maintain that a motivation based on aesthetics is vastly different from a motivation rooted in a culturally induced ideology which advocates and promotes the belief that X ethnic group is inferior or deficient compared to our own ethnic group. I also maintain that a motivation based on aesthetics is vastly different from a motivation based on negative stereotyping of an ethnic group as it sets the stage for a prejudicial mind state.Non. What I am saying is that the motivation is vastly different
No. You don't know the motivation behind a prostitute advertising 'no Blacks' unless you've asked each and every one of them. You just imagine the reasons can't be legitimate.
How many times do I need to draw the line between aesthetically motivated attraction or lack of and culturally induced rejection of an entire ethnic group based on negative stereotyping or/and rejection based on race supremacy?and further I do not abide to the belief that female GI and straight persons discriminate against their own gender by excluding female partners. Do not abide to the belief that male GI and straight persons discriminate against their own gender by excluding male partners. Nor do I abide to the belief that gay males discriminate against females by excluding female partners. Nor do I abide to the belief that gay females discriminate against males by excluding male partners.
I am not aesthetically attracted to Asian men and I would never pay for sex with one. Should the government crack down on me, as a racist john?
In that case, you might as well qualify my preferring the taste of specific ethnic foods over let's say "Continental American cuisine" as being a matter of "discrimination". You might as well attach the term "discrimination" to any and all personal preferences.Therefor, there is no way I would cry out "discrimination" if you were a prostitute who advertises "no females" versus prostitutes who advertise "no black men" as specifically brought up in the Op content.
But it is discrimination; it's simply discrimination you think has a legitimate reason behind it (I think the reason is legitimate too).
I definitely disagree with his stance.bilby, on the other hand, is now backed so far in a corner in his 'prejudiced discrimination is never justified camp' he thinks a straight gigolo should have to service male clients (or indeed a gay rent boy should have to service female clients, or at least not refuse putting his penis in their mouth or anus).
Maybe you and I are using different definitions. Have to beat feet to work for now but will get back later and see if we can agree on a definition of the term "discrimination" especially relating to how anti discrimination laws are formulated.That was stated to reinforce my point that when it comes to sexual orientation eliminating partners of one gender or or the other and being advertised as "no males" or "no females", we cannot cry out "discrimination". Misogyny being another mind state induced by culture.
It is discrimination. It's just discrimination that we both believe is legitimate.
You stated you could not understand what "governed by ideologies" meant. I gave you non fictive illustrations of historically documented instances of nations institutionalizing racially focused segregation and discrimination based on culturally induced ideologies. Nowhere did I contend in those illustrations that such are similar to your aesthetically motivated lack of attraction to Asian men.Let me explain then via several non fictive illustrations :
-what governed legislature depriving Blacks in the US from equal Constitutional Rights and Privileges (equal to the white majority) was the belief or ideology or culturally induced mind state that due to their ethnicity or what some refer to as "race", they were inferior and therefor to be socially separate (segregation) while not having access to privileges and rights to be conferred to whites only.
-what governed the South African Apartheid was the belief or ideology or culturally induced mind state that the Bantu people were inferior and therefor to be socially separate while not having access to privileges and rights to be conferred to whites only.
-what governs White Supremacist movements in the US is the belief or ideology or culturally induced mind set that the white ethnicity (which some will refer to as "race") is superior to others therefore promoting race separatism and unequal access to rights and privileges to be conferred to whites only.
The result of the first 2 is that those culturally induced mind states/ideologies/beliefs did govern how those societies behaved towards persons of black ethnicity and behaviors which were legally institutionalized.
The 3 one if deprived from "legally institutionalized" still governs how White Supremacists will behave towards persons of the ethnicity they believe to be inferior to their own. Still governs their wishful thinking of returning to race separatism and legally institutionalized race based discrimination.
I do not want to derail this thread by triggering an intense discussion on the source or root of race supremacy based ideologies governing human behaviors. I had to give you the above illustrations since you did not understand what I meant by " governed by ideologies".
So, the only way for me to be less aesthetically attracted to Asian men is because my parents and society taught me that White men were hotter, and my preference has nothing to do with biology and therefore my preference is ideology and completely illegitimate?
I hope I did not waste my time illustrating what I meant by "governed by ideologies" as it appears you missed it.