credoconsolans
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A friend came to visit me from 500 miles away.
I was the only reason this person was in town. We planned a long weekend together.
The day after this person arrived I came down with a horrible cold.
I did not tell this person. What could I say? "Oh, thanks for coming, but now you need to turn around and go back home?"
I drugged myself up and managed to pass off my sinus-y sounds as 'allergies' and spent time with this person in close proximity.
Sure enough, after going home, within the normal incubation period of a rhinovirus, my friend came down ill.
Only thinking it was just allergies or mild, continued with their sports and then ended up in the ER deathly ill with bronchitis that doctors thought might have been pneumonia.
This person was normally healthy and athletic and in shape. Not immune suppressed or anything like that.
Should I have said something once I DID come down with something? It might have already been too late since the day they arrived, I still felt fine and we hung out.
It was just a bad cold that I was over in a week.
Thoughts?
I was the only reason this person was in town. We planned a long weekend together.
The day after this person arrived I came down with a horrible cold.
I did not tell this person. What could I say? "Oh, thanks for coming, but now you need to turn around and go back home?"
I drugged myself up and managed to pass off my sinus-y sounds as 'allergies' and spent time with this person in close proximity.
Sure enough, after going home, within the normal incubation period of a rhinovirus, my friend came down ill.
Only thinking it was just allergies or mild, continued with their sports and then ended up in the ER deathly ill with bronchitis that doctors thought might have been pneumonia.
This person was normally healthy and athletic and in shape. Not immune suppressed or anything like that.
Should I have said something once I DID come down with something? It might have already been too late since the day they arrived, I still felt fine and we hung out.
It was just a bad cold that I was over in a week.
Thoughts?