southernhybrid
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I went to high school in New Jersey. The school nurse was also the health educator and she was the one who did the sex ed class. Oddly enough, we had a sex ed class at my church for the high school kids. Of course by then, regardless if we were still vigins or not, we at least had a basic understanding of human sexuality.
But, once again the topic of masturbation never was mentioned.
My husband has never seemed to suffer any guilt from his Catholic upbringing. His mother and most of the Catholic mothers who I knew from that generation, seemed to think that sex was a duty, not something that they enjoyed themselves. As a woman who has always had a healthy sex drive and who has always enjoyed the experience, I felt so bad for all those women who were deprived of the joy of sex. I'm monogamous, so I'm talking about the wonderful sex that married couples are capable of enjoying. I do wonder if religious indoctrination has ruined the sexual experience even for those who are married. Hopefully not these days, but I'm sure it was a problem in the past. I'm pretty sure there are many widowed folks who enjoy self pleasuring while fantasizing. I'm pretty sure an older female friend of mine who is divorced has an assortment of sex toys based on some comments she's made, so.....
If masturbation was encouraged by religion, both men and women would probably be much better informed when they started having partners, even if they only had one marital partner for their entire lives.
I know that the Hindu religion has a lot of beautiful sexual rituals, but I'm not sure that religion looks favorably on self stimulation. I'll have to check that out and see what I can find. Why do so many religions deny their followers the natural pleasures in life? Not to be disrespectful towards those who are asexual as I know that is natural for a very small percentage of people. The purpose of this thread is not to condemn anyone who has no interest in sex. It's meant to discuss religions that outlaw or condemn the most harmless sexual activity of all.
But, once again the topic of masturbation never was mentioned.
My husband has never seemed to suffer any guilt from his Catholic upbringing. His mother and most of the Catholic mothers who I knew from that generation, seemed to think that sex was a duty, not something that they enjoyed themselves. As a woman who has always had a healthy sex drive and who has always enjoyed the experience, I felt so bad for all those women who were deprived of the joy of sex. I'm monogamous, so I'm talking about the wonderful sex that married couples are capable of enjoying. I do wonder if religious indoctrination has ruined the sexual experience even for those who are married. Hopefully not these days, but I'm sure it was a problem in the past. I'm pretty sure there are many widowed folks who enjoy self pleasuring while fantasizing. I'm pretty sure an older female friend of mine who is divorced has an assortment of sex toys based on some comments she's made, so.....
If masturbation was encouraged by religion, both men and women would probably be much better informed when they started having partners, even if they only had one marital partner for their entire lives.
I know that the Hindu religion has a lot of beautiful sexual rituals, but I'm not sure that religion looks favorably on self stimulation. I'll have to check that out and see what I can find. Why do so many religions deny their followers the natural pleasures in life? Not to be disrespectful towards those who are asexual as I know that is natural for a very small percentage of people. The purpose of this thread is not to condemn anyone who has no interest in sex. It's meant to discuss religions that outlaw or condemn the most harmless sexual activity of all.