I wonder sometimes what life with no debt will feel like, and if I will ever experience it.
Oh, to never need a loan, and to never borrow again.
To not be owned by anyone or anything in this world but those I bind myself to with mutual, personal consent and to know freedom.
To be truly unshackled and unbound from all, with an open path forward towards my dreams.
Maybe that means finally getting to go back to school.
Maybe that means doing the research I want.
I have only ever had small debt, except for the student loan. And that is smallish now.
Credit cards are a trap. Perhaps the real test if someone is "poor" is that their debt increases faster than their assets...
Personally, I am debt free. I payed my mortgage off years ago. I double and triple payed each month, same with financing cars. Other times, I bought cars outright, no financing. I was not good for the banks because I did not pay a lot of interest. When I was paying my mortgage, they constantly switched me to other banks. I believe it's because they realized they were getting a raw deal.
I don't use credit cards and never owned one. I completely agree they are a trap. I realize I am atypical, but I refuse to get one on principle. I realize that is a privileged view, not everyone can entertain who are just trying to survive.
But I don't feel financially secure at all. I feel less secure and free (your word). Most of that has to do with the steep rise in costs relative to my investments and thinking about how I will survive years from now. Future state of cost of food, energy, healthcare, and my son's college are very scary thoughts.