doubtingt
Senior Member
Interesting that this thread came up shortly after the Affirmative Action threads, because those threads show the need for "not all X" to be said loudly.
When you have one group on average advantaged over another group, and you rectify that by giving special treatment to the second group, you are telling the disadvantaged in the first group that they don't exist. The call that they do exist and do matter becomes important, and that is a call of "not all X" (that not all in the first group are better off than those in the second group). If you hear the protest that they do exist, and dismiss it, then you have also told them that they don't matter.
I think this thread started with the idea of relationships between individual men and women, not cultural sexism in society. As usual, everybody has their own drum to beat.
No, the thread began with OP that cited an article which began with several sexist cultural stereotypes about the nature of very definition of men:
Some additional notes about men:
A man is someone who pays his female employees less.
A man is someone who interrupts a woman when she's in the middle of saying something.
A man expects his wife to do all the cooking and cleaning.
Note that these statements are in no way qualified and do not refer to "some" or even "most" men, but rather refer to the "a" person belonging to the category of "men" which the OP claims is defined by the above traits, and therefore to all comprehenders of English refers to "all men". The OP then goes on to attack and mock all people intelligent enough to realize this and the factual wrongness of the OP statements, and thus point out that at best these statements apply to a special subset of people defined by something other than simply being "men", and thus these statements are objectively false, sexist, and the exact same as saying "A Woman is someone that is weak, emotional, and bad at math".
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