"Be nice or we'll mischaracterize your views" is about as ignorant, dishonest, and stupid a response to that as you can get, although I understand that it does have the effect of satisfying a desire to view oneself as good and a "nice" person. I'd rather be aware and truthful myself.
Bumping this one so it doesn't get lost..
I don't think anyone is trying to mischaracterize your views, they just have a different opinion that understanding tends to have a consistent, positive impact. Both goals are the same - minimizing the impact of harmful ideology - but in our opinion the better way to do so is to seek to understand on some level, even if we're up against unconscionable behavior.
Maybe you're right and that's not true, maybe your approach works better. I have no idea how I'd even quantify that. Although I do think it would be wise for anybody - not just you and myself included - to consider their impact as well as their intent. I see so many people online who sincerely want to affect change, intent, but where their actions and words just drive the wedge further, impact. I think in a lot of cases people are just angry and consider their 'opposition' the 'other' and not worthy of their respect. And so often what looks like social justice ends up just being an attack and expression of anger, rather than a sincere desire to affect change.
To be fair atheist Soviet communism. Maoism, current atheist communist China, and NK are mot exactly bastions of freedom and tolerance.
All rigid ideologies become oppressive.
I agree. The common denominator of every free society is a system of checks and balances where every viewpoint gets a chance to express itself. The left sometimes sees itself as a savior, and in ways it is, but the right keeps it from spinning out of control. The reverse is also true - the right thinks it has all the answers, but the left keeps it from spinning out of control.
The problem comes when someone who thinks they have all of the answers gets all the power, and stops seeking outside opinion. Because, for the most part, all of us, politicians especially, have no idea what they're doing. Without someone there to tell them they're being an idiot you get state crisis.