Toni
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When I graduated they had us bow before them as they prayed and if we refused we looked like jerks. They are normalized. When my kids graduated, the Republican mayor was always there giving a speech on how the military fights for our freedom. Always the same thing. If you speak against him, you're a jerk. Their power and stances are normalized. Who is this smart aleck kid who thinks just because every other valedictorian gets to give a speech, that he can rock the boat by saying something that the government and institutions in charge of us don't want him to say? Freedom is for the privileged, entitled, and powerful people, not young adults speaking against the powerful.
I had to turn in a copy of the speech I intended to give, for official approval. Which seems relatively benign: one prefers that speakers at a graduation not lace their remarks with profanities or calls to violence or to advocate for illegal drug/alcohol use, etc.
Of course, at my high school, students were forbidden to offer up a petition or poll assessing student's feelings about allowing pregnant students to continue classes. Pregnant girls were forced to drop out of school although they did have an option of attending special classes for pregnant girls at a vocational school. The fathers of the babies were allowed to continue their classes, attend prom, hold class office, participate in any and all extracurricular activities, including athletics. One such father did not marry the mother of his child until after basketball season was finished. She delivered a couple of days later.
When my son delivered his address at graduation, he was also required to provide an advance copy to administration. He did not provide a copy to his parents so it was a fresh experience for us as well as the rest of the audience.
He had the additional advantage (and I do think it was actually an advantage) of the opportunity to practice with teachers who taught speech classes so that he could be more comfortable speaking and also to fine tune his remarks. This was available and perhaps mandatory for all speech givers. It's been some years so I may be a bit fuzzy on that detail.