It never ceases to astonish me, the knots some people will tie themselves into in order to rationalise their stupid and dangerous driving habits.
No, I do not tailgate. And even if everyone else did, that still wouldn't be a good reason for me to.
I’m out on the roads driving much of the day, every day. I’m well acquainted with the annoying habits of many other drivers, and how many of them tailgate is up there in the Top 5 Peevs.
But it’s not 99%.
I don't mean 99% of drivers are tailgating at any given moment (although on busy streets more than 50% are), but rather that 99% of drivers tailgate multiple times during most of their trips. Thus, 99% should lose their licence according the bibly's rules.
Also, "tailgating" in this context means simply being less that 2 seconds behind the driver in front of you, which is anything less than 300 feet behind on the hwy and less than 136 feet on a minor 35 mph road. The whole point is that the distanced required to avoid hitting a person that slams their brakes 30 feet before an intersection because the light turned yellow is much greater than people realize, and why it is considered by all scientifically informed traffic engineer and law makers to be unsafe to stop on yellow much of the time.
BTW, when you are at a red light that turns green, do you wait a full 2 seconds after the car in front of you accelerates before you even begin to accelerate? Almost no one does, and yet they are tailgating and following at "unsafe" distances if the don't. According to bilby's criteria they (and thus nearly every driver should have their licence revoked.
A good driver is a person who knows he’s a mistake-prone human like everyone else, and so allows room for others AND HIMSELF to make their inevitable errors.
A bad driver is 1) anyone who thinks he’s a good driver and it’s the others that suck; 2) thinks of himself first and others second.
Agreed. That is why it is bad driving to think yellow means "stop" without considering the scientific fact that it is very often unsafe to stop at yellow, and then blames the person who hit them when they make this terrible unsafe decision. Red light cameras encourage bad driving decisions motivated by a selfish desire to avoid a ticket rather than what is safest in that situation.
The unfortunate reality is that you don't have a choice, in dense traffic following at a safe distance is actually more dangerous than following too closely. If you follow at a safe distance you'll have aggressive drivers cutting into the gap you leave, sometimes forcing you to stomp on the brakes because they cut it too close.
This is dangerous nonsense.
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Driving is not a competition; you are not in a race against other drivers, and you are not responsible for preventing or punishing their bad behaviour or habits.
Eggzactly.
Not eggzactly. Completely wrong.
It isn't about it being a competition. It is about safety. It is about the empirical fact that leaving a "safe" distance of 2 seconds (which is actually too low) will usually cause another driver to create a far less safe distance in front of you of under 1 second, less safe than if you had only left 1.5 seconds.
It is about safety. In multiple lanes of merging traffic, it is often objectively safer to follow at a distance that is less than ideal, but still longer than the fraction of the distance created when that ideal distance is inevitably (and almost always is) cut off by another driver.
Yes, you will have people pull in front of you if you make space for them to do. So, make space.
Too late. The moment that cut into the space, it is already highly unsafe. And you likely have cars behind you at unsafe distances. So, you can only slowly back off and hope that nothing happens before you can reestablish a safe distance, and the very second you reestablish that safe distance another car will cut in front of you. You will spend most of your drive at unsafe distances forcing those behind you to constantly (and dangerously) adjust their speed each time you back off the next person to cut into your "safe space" you just made.
It can be objectively safer for everyone to leave less than ideal space to discourage anyone from cutting into it. It results in less merging (inherntly dangerous), less speed adjustments (inherently dangerous), and a lower % of time driving at the most unsafe distances (which are when the person cuts into the space you left.
Note, this is a side issue about hwy driving, and largely a moot point regarding the issue of yellow lights. The fact is that even without this lane changing issue, very few drivers approaching busy intersections are spaced at distances that would allow them to safely stop if the person in front of them decided to hit the brakes when the light turned yellow less than 100 feet from the intersection. That fact has no chance of changing any time in the future. That makes dangerous to add extra motivations for people to stop on yellow when it is unsafe to do so, and cameras inherently do this.