Derec
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Sure. Kelly did not express her point well I think. Maybe she meant to say "pass for older"?Passing for younger than 15 is "visually pre- or mid-pubescence"
Many teenagers look older. You can certainly find many 15 and 18 year olds that look the same age, or even 17 and 20 year olds for that matter. And what if the younger person lies about their age? Or even gets fake id? Do you agree with "strict liability" here or should government have to show mens rea?
If you look at a 17 year, 364 day old and find her attractive, you are a "pedophile", but the next day, you are not. Is that really how some people think pedophilia works?
Note that you edited my words where I say the exact opposite. Let me repeat them, in bold.You keep ignoring the fact that you also don't seem to support laws that would actually make it illegal for adults to fuck 15 year olds. Curious, that.
Wrong. I did not say that it was "not so bad" for adults not close in age to have sex with 15 year olds. There are certainly good reasons to have laws to protect teenagers under a certain age when it comes to sex, even if we disagree how those laws should look like.
Of course, I do agree with laws criminalizing adults not close in age having sex with 15 year olds. I do not think an 18 year old having consensual sex with a 15 year old should be prosecuted though, even though he or she is technically an adult.
But just because I support close-in-age exceptions does not mean I am against "laws that would actually make it illegal for adults to fuck 15 year olds". That is just libel at this point.
I do not think it is irrelevant. If your argument hinges on the black-and-white absolutist notions that "anybody even a day under 18 is a child and it's all pedophilia" then you lose all nuance, and there is no reason not to consider an 18 or 19 year old with a 17 year old girlfriend a "pedophile". And it's not a fictional scenario either. Prosecutions of close-in-age relationships have happened, and often lead to these young adults having to register as sex offenders for the rest of their lives.In fact you whine like a stuck pig about such irrelevance whenever it's pointed out that the people arguing for this aren't 19, they're 40, or even 80.
Yes, but we also should use the word "pedophilia" more judiciously. Do you really think looking at 17 years and 364 days old is "pedophilia"? Or should this very emotionally charged word be better reserved for the likes of actual old-ass pedophiles like Stacie-Marie Laughton who was creeping on 5 year olds?We can make laws that allow kids to 'explore' while still banning old-ass pedophiles from creeping.
Our laws do not allow "pedophiles creeping" or raping children (or non-child minors for that matter). Neither do I advocate for laws that allow that.Instead of presenting a structure of better laws that prevent pedophiles from creeping, you make posts like these defending those broken laws that let adults rape children, and pretend we can't or shouldn't do better.
If anything, our laws are too broad, and get applied to things like teenagers sexting or having sex with each other.
The issue is not that laws allow this or that, it's that evidence matters. You can't prosecute if there isn't sufficient evidence to sustain a criminal charge. And to do away with that would destroy the entire edifice of our justice system.
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