People get mad at poor people on food stamps for buying junk food, but no one else. Middle class people make poor food choices all the time but no one complains about them in the check out line.
It's different if someone pays for junk food with their money, vs. with basically a government grant.
I do not see it as outlandish to place restrictions on food assistance payments.
Aren't their children also going to be malnourished?
Or does money buy you freedom?
If these hypothetical middle class children are malnourished, then DFACS (or whatever it's called in your state) should get involved.
However, even when middle class families buy soda and oreos, they usually also buy more nutritious food. When money is scarce, it is more likely that it is one or the other.
Poor people have little money and live on public assistance so they can't buy their way out of our righteous indignation.
As you say, "[they] have little money". Every SNAP or other dollar spent on junk food is not going to buying broccoli, or onions, or tomatoes, or chicken. That is not really a concern with middle class families. They can buy sweets as a treat without it cutting into the "perimeter of the store" budget.
It's "our tax money" (It really isn't, but that another topic)
It is not? Explain.
so we get to sit in judgment and demand limitations on their behaviors.
If somebody is given funds for a specific purpose, say "nutrition", then why it is wrong to place rules on how those funds are spent?
Only it isn't "our money" and we really should have no more control over how a person in the grocery store spends his or her money than we have the right to tell a fireman how to fight a fire or a VA nurse how to take blood or a soldier how to fire a weapon.
Huh? Public employees are subject to all sorts of rules. A phlebotomist working for VA cannot take blood any which way she wants. A firefighter is likewise subject to myriad rules and regulations, and may lose their job if they fail to follow them. And of course they do - people may die if they don't.
Public money isn't just "our" (as opposed to "their") money and how the end user of public funds uses that money isn't "our" business unless that use is illegal.
It is not illegal to buy beer. You can't buy beer with SNAP. So
there already are restrictions.
Think of it this way, if you can tell a welfare recipient he can't use public money to buy Doritos, what's to stop you from telling him he can't check out Lady Chatterly's Lover from the public library or use the emergency room at a public hospital, or push his kids on a swing in a public park?
None of these things are analogous. A better analogy is that SNAP is already a restricted program. You can't put everything in a grocery store on your SNAP card.
And what does our bullying and berating the poor for legal behavior we all have engaged or do engage in (the buying of junk food is legal) say about us and what we think freedom of choice really is?
Freedom of choice is rarely unlimited. If you save money with 529, receive Pell Grants or take out student loans, you have to use it for educational expenses. Even if a weekend in Vegas, or a night at the Chicken Ranch in Pahrump, is perfectly legal behavior.