Jarhyn
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For FTMs who detransition and are attracted to men, the issue of their permanently lower voice has got to a be serious hurdle in the dating market.
For me, and I think I am normal straight guy, it is (and would have been when I was dating age) an instant hyper deal breaker seeing even an otherwise very attractive woman with a teenage boy's or adult male's voice. It is nothing that I can control, but some part of my brain goes nope.
I am being an honest asshole here because no one else is.
For MTF who transition, and are attracted to men, the issue of their permanently lower voice has got to be a serious hurdle in the dating market.
I am sure it would be quite a deal breaker seeing an otherwise very attractive woman with a teenage boy's or even adult male's voice.
<Edited>, and while I believe it honest, you aren't at all on mark for having any kind of point. I can't imagine how you don't see this, all the people who actually want to transition with blockers because they don't want to suffer exactly the fate you just described.
And you are using this argument of a vanishing minority to deny the majority exactly the experience you bemoan for this poor hypothetical transitioner: the right to the body of their desired gender puberty.
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