Emily Lake
Might be a replicant
- Joined
- Jul 7, 2014
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- Agenderist
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- Atheist
(huh, while posting this just discovered another little internal bias there i wasn't aware of - i don't seem to have this issue with trans men. i guess that's kind of like the whole 'punching up' thing about what groups it's OK to target in comedy for mockery)
Transmen represent no risk and no threat to cis-men. If a transman uses the men's restroom, they're probably going to use the stall unless they've surgically transitioned. It they have surgically transitioned and use a urinal... well, men are raised and conditioned not to start at other men's junk, and probably aren't going to give it any notice. At best, they'll perceive a small man, or an effeminate man. But they're not going to comment on it, and they're not going to feel threatened by it. The implied threat of being leered at in a sexual way, or of potentially being assaulted or raped, just isn't there. A person with a female physique just isn't likely to be a physical threat at all. Same goes in locker rooms. If there's an intact transman in the men's locker room, they're much more likely to get lecherous looks (boobs!) than the other way around. In fact, they're much more likely to be assaulted or raped than the other way around.
If a transman gets placed in a men's prison, they don't represent an increased risk of rape to the cis-men housed there. Rather, they themselves face increased risk of rape - especially if they haven't surgically transitioned.
If a transman wants to compete in a men's sport, they're unlikely to be competitive. And if they are, then that's incredibly impressive all around. But given that they have the skeletal structure, muscular attachment points, and physiology of a human female, the likelihood of a transman dominating a men's sport is infinitesimal. If it's high school or college sports, where scholarships are on the line, there no feasible chance that a transman will win a men's sports scholarship. If a transman competes in the Olympics in a men's sport, they're unlikely to win or even to place... and the chances of them smashing a record so thoroughly that a cis-man stands no likelihood of ever coming close to it pretty much nil.
Transmen don't dilute the privileges of men, nor do they threaten any hard won progress. They don't reinforce social biases that hold men back from success, independence, and status. Transmen aren't realistically in competition with cis-men for limited opportunities.
And lastly, transmen don't enter the world of men with a feeling of entitlement, and with the expectation that their desires and needs will be met by society as a whole. They don't transition by demanding that they are every single bit as much of a man as a person who has a prostate or a person who has organic testicles capable of producing sperm, or a person with the capacity for impregnating a human female, or a person with an adam's apple... and they don't demand that the term "man" must always refer to them, and if it's used in the traditional manner of referring to a human male, they don't view that as being intentionally and unforgivably exclusionary.