Yes, this proves the point. You 'prefer' to call him according to your norms and definitions not hers. If she asks you to refer to her as female - there is no 'rights' removed if you don't,
Of course my rights are removed, because trans activists have commanded the power of the State to stop free speech. My friend isn't female even if he says he is. Nor would I call him white if he asked me to, because he isn't.
Of course, trans activists already have extreme cultural power as well. Deadnaming is already forbidden. Wikipedia doesn't give birth names of trans-identified people, even though that is clearly historical information (it gives the birth names of anyone else, though). If somebody perceives that you have misgendered them on Twitter, you can be suspended or banned for life.
but she can also refer to you as an asshole without recourse, and you demanding that she insist she is a male is kind of the same as you demanding that Steve uses his first name.
No. "Male" and "female" are biological categories, and somebody insisting they are one when they are the other may be their preference, but I do not and cannot partake in their delusion.
Mostly in the context of you speaking with multiple people in the presence of a transgendered person of whom you are referring. (ie. introducing her to a friend and saying "she doesn't like being referred to as he").
I don't police people's speech.
Whoa, whoa, whoa...are you saying that someone will go through all the trouble of gender reassignment
Their gender is not reassigned. Indeed, their gender was never assigned in the first place. They are having surgery and hormone treatment so that their sex more closely matches their gender.
and hormone treatment, but you won't recognize a "male" with all the parts and facial hair without a genetic test to determine if they actually have a Y chromosome?
What somebody does to alter their appearance and internal chemistry does not obligate me to believe something I do not believe.
As for "male" with "all the parts" … that does not happen. A pseudopenis doesn't look or function like a real penis. Surgery does not turn ova into sperm.
In any case, that isn't what trans activists demand. Trans activists demand that one's gender is accepted as one's sex with no surgery, no hormones, no work at all to pass as the opposite sex. Indeed, trans activists now say even gender dysphoria is not necessary for somebody to be trans, and women can use he/him pronouns if they want, and if you think there should be any bureaucratic or medical barriers at all you are truscum.
And is that a real problem in Australia, or a perceived one?
How do you define the difference between a real problem and a perceived one? Is it a real problem if females don't want males in their changing rooms, or is that merely a perceived problem that does not need to be recognized or addressed?
Is it a problem if the facilities at a public space are based on sex and not gender? Would that pose a real problem or a perceived one?