Emily Lake
Might be a replicant
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It strikes me that the issue here parallels the issue with respect to sexism and rape.
Consider that when we discuss a rape situation from the perspective of women's rights and sexism, there is invariably someone who responds by saying "well men get raped too". Certainly this is true, but it's rarely well received.
In both cases, the underlying topic is that of bigoted injury and hatred. It is hatred for no rationally defensible reason. In the case above the hatred is based on gender, and in this case it is based on skin color. That hatred and injury can flow in any direction. Men can hate women, and women can hate men. White people can hate Black people, and Korean people can hate Japanese people.
Although the hatred can and does flow in many different directions, it is also true that in some time periods and some geographic regions, there is a significantly stronger flow in one direction than in another. For the majority of discussions that we have here, we are discussing current and recent US history. In that context, the majority of racial bigotry flows from white people toward non-white people, with a heavy emphasis on black people. Similarly, the majority of sexual bigotry flows from men toward women.
I don't believe that anyone in this thread denies that racial bigotry exists. Nor do I believe that anyone in this thread supports the continuation of racial bigotry.
I do, however, believe that there is risk in how the topic is approached.
When we discuss sexism, there is a great risk of addressing the topic from the vantage of "women versus men". It is very easy to oversimplify language, and to speak as if it is all men perpetrating such bigotry against all women. Obviously, this isn't the case. But we are speaking to many men. And by lazily lumping them into the group that is being treated as purposeful oppressors, we rob them of their free will and we dismiss their actions on our behalf. We make them our enemies, without giving them the opportunity to be our supporters.
The same dynamic is a risk when we discuss racial bigotry. It is all too easy to speak of "white people" as universal oppressors and exploiters of black people. But in so doing, you cast all of us as your enemy, whether we will it or no. I am a white woman. But I am not a racist, and I am not your enemy. I will gladly fight alongside you... but I will not be asked to demean myself and accept the mantle of "exploiter" "racist" "oppressor" in order to do so.
Please don't resort to group dynamics on this topic. Don't cast all white people as the enemy. Allow me to fight alongside you.
Consider that when we discuss a rape situation from the perspective of women's rights and sexism, there is invariably someone who responds by saying "well men get raped too". Certainly this is true, but it's rarely well received.
In both cases, the underlying topic is that of bigoted injury and hatred. It is hatred for no rationally defensible reason. In the case above the hatred is based on gender, and in this case it is based on skin color. That hatred and injury can flow in any direction. Men can hate women, and women can hate men. White people can hate Black people, and Korean people can hate Japanese people.
Although the hatred can and does flow in many different directions, it is also true that in some time periods and some geographic regions, there is a significantly stronger flow in one direction than in another. For the majority of discussions that we have here, we are discussing current and recent US history. In that context, the majority of racial bigotry flows from white people toward non-white people, with a heavy emphasis on black people. Similarly, the majority of sexual bigotry flows from men toward women.
I don't believe that anyone in this thread denies that racial bigotry exists. Nor do I believe that anyone in this thread supports the continuation of racial bigotry.
I do, however, believe that there is risk in how the topic is approached.
When we discuss sexism, there is a great risk of addressing the topic from the vantage of "women versus men". It is very easy to oversimplify language, and to speak as if it is all men perpetrating such bigotry against all women. Obviously, this isn't the case. But we are speaking to many men. And by lazily lumping them into the group that is being treated as purposeful oppressors, we rob them of their free will and we dismiss their actions on our behalf. We make them our enemies, without giving them the opportunity to be our supporters.
The same dynamic is a risk when we discuss racial bigotry. It is all too easy to speak of "white people" as universal oppressors and exploiters of black people. But in so doing, you cast all of us as your enemy, whether we will it or no. I am a white woman. But I am not a racist, and I am not your enemy. I will gladly fight alongside you... but I will not be asked to demean myself and accept the mantle of "exploiter" "racist" "oppressor" in order to do so.
Please don't resort to group dynamics on this topic. Don't cast all white people as the enemy. Allow me to fight alongside you.