Malintent
Veteran Member
My wife just can't keep her hands away from her face... it drives me crazy... rubbing her nose, eyes.. scratching her brow.. it is almost constant at times... Occasionally, I might tell her to stop rubbing her eyes.. usually she becomes instantly defensive and denies she was touching her face at all... I have no idea what its about or where it came from... it's like a nervous tick at times...
If a cop told her to put her hands up and not to move, I would be terrified that she would just randomly decide to start rubbing her eyes and scratching her nose.. she would be told to stop moving and the order to put her hands up would be repeated... and she might genuinely be confused as to what the cop was telling her to do, because she would be oblivious to having moved her hands... Scarier even, the repeating of the order after her oblivious motion might cause her to then think she got the order wrong in the first place, and then go and do something else with her hands... My wife does have a problem following verbal directions, and on top of that is clueless about certain things she does with her hands... That could have been her killed In that hallway very easily under the same circumstances.
.. just like that oblivious guy that couldn't follow directions for more than a few seconds and was unable to keep track of where he was putting his own hands.
Cops should be trained to deal with disorders like the one involved in a persons inability to sense their own actions.. to know that their hand is moving.. to be able to do something a different way than they are used to doing it (like standing up without pulling the back of your pants up) if it is expressed how important it is to do so.
The cop asked if he was drunk and not able to understand... the victim denied being drunk... he would have been better off drunk and just admitting he was unreliable at following orders.
If a cop told her to put her hands up and not to move, I would be terrified that she would just randomly decide to start rubbing her eyes and scratching her nose.. she would be told to stop moving and the order to put her hands up would be repeated... and she might genuinely be confused as to what the cop was telling her to do, because she would be oblivious to having moved her hands... Scarier even, the repeating of the order after her oblivious motion might cause her to then think she got the order wrong in the first place, and then go and do something else with her hands... My wife does have a problem following verbal directions, and on top of that is clueless about certain things she does with her hands... That could have been her killed In that hallway very easily under the same circumstances.
.. just like that oblivious guy that couldn't follow directions for more than a few seconds and was unable to keep track of where he was putting his own hands.
Cops should be trained to deal with disorders like the one involved in a persons inability to sense their own actions.. to know that their hand is moving.. to be able to do something a different way than they are used to doing it (like standing up without pulling the back of your pants up) if it is expressed how important it is to do so.
The cop asked if he was drunk and not able to understand... the victim denied being drunk... he would have been better off drunk and just admitting he was unreliable at following orders.