You can shake your fist at the clouds for all I care. Sex-segregation is a reality across the world. If you don't want sex-segregation, you will have to deal with that reality.
I am doing something about it by actively participating in a movement to clarify gendered language used in the public sphere for general.sockal interaction as directing towards gender, not "sex".
I don't care how you personally use the term 'man.'
Which is why you fail at linguistics. Because the definition of words comes about through how people use those words, and what people collectively decide through zeitgeist or other means, what some utterance "means".
My arguments have been for the sake of the cultural.movement I participate in, the sake of disambiguating in favor of gender rather than sex.
I point to the fact that there are as many different definitions of "man" as there are people who hear the word. Definitions are meaningless in and of themselves.
Alright luv.
the fact that you don't seem to understand linguistic cluster concepts is sad
Especially group definitions like 'man' and 'woman'. They are not useful in this context
Also...
Alright luv. Declare definitions not useful by fiat. Very convincing. So learned.
you have the burden here. You claim a positive attribute: that your definitions are useful in and of themselves. My counter to this is that they are not. They are proxies. If you want to find out if someone is competent to accomplish some feat, you test them on the accomplishment of the feat. You don't test someone "like them", and then say "they failed the test for you". No, you test
them, not someone else.
Then when I mentioned someone born XY with a vagina (or any other configuration, I suspect), that that person is NOT a man.
That person is probably an intersex male, but whether you would call them 'male with an intersex condition' or 'intersex' isn't too relevant. There would be other people who are intersex but might appear closer to female.
you still have yet to justify why I should care what your dictionary says or how it pigeonholes people. Reality doesn't care either. There isn't some magical file our on the internet that you can read that says "sex:male". There's a pile of meat, and chemicals, and cartilage and blood. That's how reality actually works. Your categorizations are powerless to change the physical realities of my body or anyone else's by uttering 'he', other than the natural way by which we hear sound or see light and then the person so hearing or seeing laughs and says "what idiocy!"
The point of words is to have them be useful, and you already know where I stand on what is the best use of gendered language.
Edit: are you seriously too old to even believe that hot trans dudes exist, and that you wouldn't know unless you had them with their pants down?
Gospa moja, it's like talking to a religionist who doesn't understand why all people everywhere have not heard the Good News.
I'll go you one better than transmen. I've once or twice seen a young, soft butch lezza from a distance and thought 'he has a cute face', and then, upon closer inspection, have seen her tits and hips and realise I had momentarily mistaken her for a twink.
I am certain that there are transmen whose face I would find pretty. Hell, there are probably post-op transmen whose bodies (depending on how closely it resembled a fit male body) I would also find attractive. But those transmen are women, because people can't change sex. I'm not bisexual and nor, even if I were, would I find female genitalia on an otherwise relatively male-looking body a 'thing' I'd be in to.
I'm glad for you that transmen could be something you are into. That doesn't make them men.
As for 'not knowing'... what? Would you have me believe that I need to inspect somebody's genitals before I know what sex someone is? If you cannot distinguish transmen from cis men, I don't know what to say to you. Spend a second of time with them.
Hey, I'm not the one who claims psychic powers to know what's in someone else's pants. Honestly, one of the most recreational parts of this thread is watching as you throw tantrums and insist that you can "tell the difference".
Honestly. You sound ridiculous. We aren't talking about genitalia, we're talking about the whole rest of the person, for who the genitalia has not even been brought up.
Because you will, absolutely some time in your life, encounter a man who was born with a vagina. And you will probably never even know it. Yes, metaphor would in fact need to physically examine some people's genital regions to know what "sex" they were.