I don't much care what race she wants to claim or identifies with; but given the high number of apparent lies on multiple topics (including police reports), she sounds like a nut... or her mother is.
In listening to this woman being interviewed I have no doubt she deeply and sincerely wishes to be perceived as Black by society, and inventing things like a Black father are a manifestation of that desire.
Calling people who wish to be perceived as Black insane does not strike me as particularly tolerant or progressive.
I don't think she wishes to be perceived as black.
I think she wishes to BE black. This is not as uncommon among white people as you would expect, nor is it uncommon for black people to sincerely wish they were white. And I think she wishes she was black because she genuinely wants to help black people overcome their difficulties and wants to be respected for doing so.
Racial politics in America being what they are, NEITHER wish is socially acceptable. Partly this is because white people pretending to be black is the LITERAL origin of the term "Jim Crow" and has a lot of white supremacist baggage attached to it, but mostly it's because nearly everyone agrees that pretending to be part of an ethnic group you don't belong to just for credibility's sake is a shitty thing to do.
Credibility is funny like that, and yes it sucks that you can be totally right about something and nobody will listen to you because you're the wrong KIND of person to have that sort of insight. THAT problem isn't limited to race relations; you can have the wrong education, the wrong gender, the wrong age, the wrong friends, the wrong political views, the wrong religion, the wrong family structure, the wrong sexual orientation, the wrong
taste in music. Any one of which could COMPLETELY invalidate you in the eyes of academia even if your theories are 100% correct. And this in academia, whose denizens are supposed to know better; what chance do you have in the less formal field of race relations and civil rights activism?
The only way to get past these superficial disqualifiers is to build up a hard-earned reputation for excellence.
"He's not a woman, but he has done alot of work over the years on women's studies and income inequality, he's worked with woman's lib organizations, he's chaired committees with Michelle Obama and Hillary Clinton and he won a Pulitzer for exposing the income gap at Sun Microsystems." <-- Credibility established.
"He's white, but he's spent several years working with American Indian tribes on social justice issues and worked as a consultant to the Iroquois Confederacy in that big lawsuit over gaming rights back in the 90s." <-- Credibility established
Dolezal didn't bother to establish that kind of credibility. She instead tried to claim the automatic +4 credibility boots one gets from being a black woman working for black civil rights. And maybe it's not fair that a white person has to work a lot harder to establish herself as an authority on the difficulties faced by minorities in America. But that's life.