Why in the hell can't we just approach these difficult questions with honesty and mutual respect? Is that asking too much?
Because there's a vast and ignoble history of people asking these questions, and moving rapidly on to genocidal totalitarianism.
You couldn't start a thread "Just Asking Questions" about why so many bankers are Jewish, and whether that's a concern, either. And for very similar reasons.
I am not asking questions about Jewish Bankers.
I am asking questions about population. But my motive for asking is not some desire to eliminate people. I love people. I wish we could fill the world with billions more.
Many scientists tell me we are bumping into limits. If what they say is true, then good people like you and I ought to be asking how bad that problem is, and what we can do about it in a way that is fair, moral and just. Nothing that I say here should in any sense be taken as meaning we should target peoples of any race, nationality, etc.
Like questions about Jewish bankers, questions about the population limits in the context of what is "fair, moral, and just" was discussed WAY upthread.
I discussed both the fuzzy borders of just and a bunch of stuff clearly inside the lines.
(Just) Asking Questions is the issue.
People, when faced with ANY zero sum game to which they did not ask to be players, will move towards preserving the closest aspects of "self" first.
They will secure their nation over their world. And this is nationalism.
They will secure their cultural community over their nation.
They will secure their race, through sect; religious sects divide on the basis of which peolple look similar, over their cultural community.
They will secure their family over their religion.
Each of these is them being solipsistic in a different way, against a different self, and given the current state of humanity, that is going to keep happening by in large.
We keep trying to impart on you that right now, we know generally where the border is. We have discussed this border with you many times and you keep asking the question.
The more times we point to the border and why it exists, the more of the benefit of doubt you lose that the question is being asked honestly.
We told you where the border lies. If you wish to debate the border, that starts where the border has been drawn.
I love the world and all the people in it. I would not add more, but I don't have to.
There is wide agreement that the most fair, moral, and just thing is around the border of "doing things that distract people from starting or enabling them to avoid starting a family".
Even at the point of paying people to not or encouraging them to not, there's the question of what demographic ends up most heavily targeted. The perception of a demographic group being targeted for reduction leads to direct conflict because it's the motivator for open declaration of "enemies" in the zero sum game.
Start at the border of "distracting and enabling" and see if you can find something, anything, beyond that. Poke carefully from the border.