For some.It’s also privacy, and dignity, and sometimes fairness.
For women, as a group.For some.It’s also privacy, and dignity, and sometimes fairness.
Of course, but that means recognizing that the mantra 'privacy, and dignity, and sometimes fairness" does not apply to everyone.Sometimes the rights of different groups conflict. You have to find a way of balancing rights.
For women, as a group.For some.It’s also privacy, and dignity, and sometimes fairness.
And it's not like there's no other option for males.
If a male puts effort into presenting, and behaves properly, they probably won't have a problem in the women's restroom. But they are NOT entitled to entrance.
The female woman, shrieking "OMG, it's a man!", is entitled to use the room.
I'd be willing to bet that the number of women who have been sufficiently traumatized by a person of penage to get bent out of shape over the male appearing person in the department store restroom is 10× than all the trans women in America.
Telling them to just get over their irrational fears, because male women don't like the restroom with males in it, is profoundly bigoted.
Tom
Like double rapists?Of course, but that means recognizing that the mantra 'privacy, and dignity, and sometimes fairness" does not apply to everyone.Sometimes the rights of different groups conflict. You have to find a way of balancing rights.
Third spaces.For women, as a group.For some.It’s also privacy, and dignity, and sometimes fairness.
And it's not like there's no other option for males.
If a male puts effort into presenting, and behaves properly, they probably won't have a problem in the women's restroom. But they are NOT entitled to entrance.
The female woman, shrieking "OMG, it's a man!", is entitled to use the room.
I'd be willing to bet that the number of women who have been sufficiently traumatized by a person of penage to get bent out of shape over the male appearing person in the department store restroom is 10× than all the trans women in America.
Telling them to just get over their irrational fears, because male women don't like the restroom with males in it, is profoundly bigoted.
Tom
Transwomen may not wish to use the men's restroom because they may have been sufficiently traumatized by a person of "penage". Are they supposed to get over their irrational fears? And, if so, how is that not profoundly bigoted?
At the same time, trans people have the right to be comfortable and safe and accepted—and to have access to facilities that are appropriate and comfortable to them. Stalls with doors!For women, as a group.For some.It’s also privacy, and dignity, and sometimes fairness.
And it's not like there's no other option for males.
If a male puts effort into presenting, and behaves properly, they probably won't have a problem in the women's restroom. But they are NOT entitled to entrance.
The female woman, shrieking "OMG, it's a man!", is entitled to use the room.
I'd be willing to bet that the number of women who have been sufficiently traumatized by a person of penage to get bent out of shape over the male appearing person in the department store restroom is 10× than all the trans women in America.
Telling them to just get over their irrational fears, because male women don't like the restroom with males in it, is profoundly bigoted.
Tom
Can't argue with that uncited evaluation.Well the data is limited, but trans women do seem to have a similar offending rate to other males.
Ibid.Certainly higher than females.
I don't see a right for males to use a restroom. Or anybody, really. If the staff of an establishment put in two restrooms, clearly marked, I don't see why anyone feels entitled to ignore the signs on the doors. There's one for everyone.At the same time, trans people have the right to be comfortable and safe and accepted—and to have access to facilities that are appropriate and comfortable to them.
I'm fine with people in management putting as much into restrooms as they find appropriate for their clientele. If they decide to provide a space for each individual, not a problem. If their product/service becomes more more expensive than a competitor I'll probably go there.Stalls with doors!
I have used male facilities all my life, and I too would be startled to see an exposed penis or testicles. It's not something you routinely see in a men's room, inless you are actively trying to catch a glimpse, in which case you are likely to get your lights punched out.For myself, being in a bathroom or dressing room with a trans woman would not be much of a big deal but I won’t lie and say that I would not be startled to see an unexpected exposed penis or testicles.
Wow. I'm glad there is an ocean between us.Like double rapists?Of course, but that means recognizing that the mantra 'privacy, and dignity, and sometimes fairness" does not apply to everyone.Sometimes the rights of different groups conflict. You have to find a way of balancing rights.
For a person who has their own version of perversion, which to your luck, isn't a death sentence these days (in fact it is decriminalized now), you show absolutely no empathy to other people who are different than the baseline.Feel free to pay extra to support your gender wishes, like individual toilets, but don't expect me to do that. I'm fine with the status quo.
That’s just fine as long as everyone is cis-gendered and not at all fine with those who are not cis-gendered.I don't see a right for males to use a restroom. Or anybody, really. If the staff of an establishment put in two restrooms, clearly marked, I don't see why anyone feels entitled to ignore the signs on the doors. There's one for everyone.At the same time, trans people have the right to be comfortable and safe and accepted—and to have access to facilities that are appropriate and comfortable to them.
I'm fine with people in management putting as much into restrooms as they find appropriate for their clientele. If they decide to provide a space for each individual, not a problem. If their product/service becomes more more expensive than a competitor I'll probably go there.Stalls with doors!
Feel free to pay extra to support your gender wishes, like individual toilets, but don't expect me to do that. I'm fine with the status quo.
Tom
Dude, let's not be petty.I have used male facilities all my life, and I too would be startled to see an exposed penis or testicles. It's not something you routinely see in a men's room, inless you are actively trying to catch a glimpse, in which case you are likely to get your lights punched out.For myself, being in a bathroom or dressing room with a trans woman would not be much of a big deal but I won’t lie and say that I would not be startled to see an unexpected exposed penis or testicles.
There you go... a "Swedish study".There was a Swedish study about offending patterns that suggested a similar rate of offending between trans women and other males, though I’ve not heard of anything else.
Some jurisdictions!And data will now be skewed as crimes committed by males identifying males are now being recorded as women’s crimes in some jurisdictions.
Well, we don't have many running to the defense of transwomen who commit rape as we do to men who commit rape. So there is that.What is true, both in the USA and UK, is that those prisoners identifying as trans women have a significantly higher rate of incarceration for sexual offences then the male prison population in general.
Can't argue with that logic. I can barely even call it logic.However, I suspect that’s down to non trans male sexual offenders identifying as trans in the hope of transfer to women’s prisons. Not a reflection on trans women per se.