"Submit to my simplistic view without acceptance of nuance or have me say you look stupid".
I would rather "look" stupid do something that is, actually, stupid.
I'm not going to take pity on stupid people being stupid.
I am not going to forgive a bouncer who did something stupid, assuming what they did was, in fact, stupid.
This is what I own: the intelligence to know that there are at most 1 persons in 'the right' here, and that person is certainly not the bar patron. That there at least 1 persons who are wrong, and that number absolutely includes the bar patron.
There is no getting away from these facts. These facts are what the universe owns. I am merely pointing them out. You are the calling it "looking stupid" for doing so.
This is a game with no winners.
You keep wanting there to be a winner, but there isn't. There are just losers. Most of all, the biggest losers are the people who want to "win" something over this in political debate.
All there is here is tragedy, first the tragic stupidity of the plague rat, then the tragic need for a response, and then the tragedy over the response.
The correct, ethical path of this situation was lost the second Karen was told by someone they trusted that masks weren't necessary for social activities.
That unethical ignorance then became a decision to be an asshole in a bar, that unethical decision became a decision to resolve it through violence, that violence is then cried bloody murder over.
You are right about some things, and wrong about other things.
You are right that the situation has no winners. I am not trying to win anything. My posting record, my very candid personality, and my constant self- deprecation ought to clue you in that I am not a competitive person...
But none of this is about me, at least not the situation being commented on.
This discussion is about me, I suppose, and about whoever participates in it. I joined the discussion because I became indignant, and very baffled that so many people would condone, or at least not condemn, an act of unnecessary violence.
You can talk all day about who started the whole mess, okay, the anti masker started it. She was in the wrong. Agreed! Who the hell will say she was not in the wrong? Maybe some fellow anti maskers, maybe TSwizzle? I don't know.
But there are other facts. First, the whole situation could have been diffused had the police been summoned. Short of that, there must have been rational people present who might have talked to the woman calmly and deescalated the situation. Short of that, a person can be forcibly removed from an establishment in the customary ways! Do not tell me that dragging a person by the hair is a common thing. It is not. I've been in bars, I've seen people tossed out. This kind of brutal shit might happen rarely, but it cannot be excusable, it cannot be justified, unless one is in a political discussion and one is compelled to twist the truth and rationalize.
Jarhyn, you and others have said things to the effect that the threat of violence is expedient in getting someone to stop talking, or to calm down, or some such. This only applies to a few contexts: one can do it if one is a police officer, sheriff, or some such lawful authority; a parent can do it justifiably with a particularly ungovernable child. BUT, one adult should never use a threat of violence on another adult or child in normal contexts.
If you were to threaten me with violence because you didn't care for what I was saying, or because I had gotten too loud, or you perceived that I was out of control, I would tell you to go and fuck yourself, and your threats would never silence me. Trust me on this one.