You yourself just said the costs would be huge. Which means you are free to choose something else but don’t want to pay the costs. You’ve weighed the pros and cons of your situation and chosen to stay.
You're reminding me of the local covidiots.
"If you don't like it here, move!"
Tom
So, I'm having a real hard time, and maybe if you feel like it you could fill me in in private, but I just can't wrap my head around someone being unable to relocate.
I've relocated several times in my life, sometimes chaotically, sometimes planned, but it has always been possible, if occasionally isolating, to do so.
As it is, I've also acted as a port in the storms of a number of people's lives. I wouldn't mind doing the same for you, except that my husband is literally driving someone else here, from Michigan, right now, and that's the last bedroom short of cannibalizing our living room back into a bedroom again.
If you are ever willing to accept
the cost, I, or one of many others, am willing to make the monetary price attainable.