If I am understanding you correctly, you believe that it is not only your right but the correct thing to do to refer to an individual with XY chromosomes
Chromosomes are not what I use to identify somebody's sex, but I assume here you mean male people.
who has always felt their apparent sex did not match the gender( see wiki link I posted) they feel: they feel female and wish to look female and be treated as a female. They undergo extensive counseling, medical exams, consult with endocrinologists, urologists, surgeons and other medical professionals, have gender confirming surgery and gave adopted and legally changed their name to a female sounding name, use a female same and have made all necessary and appropriate legal filings and documentation to establish themself as a legal female—-and you believe that not only is it your right but the correct thing to do to call them he/him.
It is absolutely, unquestionably, I'll-die-on-this-hill, my right to call them he/him. It is absolutely, unquestionably, I'll-die-on-this-hill morally wrong for the State to punish me for doing so. And it is fucking monstrous--
MONSTROUS (is there a double underline?)--for the State to punish women in prison--women who cannot escape their fellow prisoners--for perceiving the sex of male inmates and using the appropriate-sexed pronoun when referring to them.
The
absolute fucking state of gender ideologists. The fucking
authoritarian hide of them. And the
fucking sadistic gall of them to put their boot on my face and tell me
I'm doing it to them.
In the past five years, gender ideologists have so polluted the zeitgeist with their
unhuman and
inhumane nonsense, I am
starting to be sympathetic with the idea of feminist patriarchy theory. Because I am at a
complete fucking loss to understand why males who are sexually attracted to females (what five years ago anybody would have called a heterosexual man) can now considered a lesbian, even as he uses his penis to have penis-in-vagina sex with a woman. "Men have the power and they just get whatever they want, especially at the expense of women" (patriarchy theory) is consistent with this scenario.