Stop placing your liberal fantasy into the mouths of the Palestinians. Listen to what they are saying
If you don’t mind me asking, what exactly do you mean by 'listen to what they are saying'? I assume you’re referring to a platform you consider trustworthy. Could you share where you’ve been hearing from the Palestinians?
You didn't bother googling this, did you?
Two examples
en.wikipedia.org
en.wikipedia.org
Leftists are continually bending over backwards to reinterpret the Palestinians litteral words in very creative ways. There is absolutely zero political movement in Palestine to live in peace with Jews.
Arabs who live within Israel are just keeping their heads down and mouths shut, because they don't want to be seen as pro-Israel. But they are of course extremely well aware they're the population of Arabs in the Middle-East with the most personal freedoms and the most legal protection. They're better treated by their (Israeli) government than Arabs are treated in any "Arab" or "Muslim" country.
Arabs are deeply conservative and do not care about freedom or security. It's more imortant to them to be seen by their neighbours as good Muslims, than anything else. It makes it increadibly difficult to have reasonable conversations. Currently Islam is a ideological steamroller.
Worth noting is that there is a international movement to liberalise Islam, (the kind of shift that both Christianity and Judaism have gone through). But it only has traction among the tiny educated middle classes. As the Middle-East gets their act together, becomes stable, the middle class will expand and Islam will liberalise. But that's 30 - 50 years away. Right now we simply have to act what's available, and that means managing Islamic aggression, the best we can.