Does evolution exist??
Sure it does, one needs to look no farther than recent history to see the evolution of antibiotic resistant bacteria.
Evolution is easy to see in many life forms.
Yes, absolutely.
I believe the question that drives these conversations is more about evidence of how life was / is created
That is not strictly a part of evolutionary theory, it is its own separate field of study, called abiogenesis.
and whether we evolved from other creatures such as apes or monkeys to be the humans we are today.
Yes, we evolved from other creatures; we ARE apes, and so were our immediate non-human ancestors. This is well evidenced, and not in serious dispute except by the wilfully ignorant.
I generally tell scientist they need to solve the "live essence" part of the equation before momving on.
Then you are about three centuries behind in your learning. There is no such thing as 'life essence'; everything is made up of the same kinds of things - Quarks, Leptons and Bosons - none of which are unique to 'life' or 'non-life'. 'Life' doesn't have a clear definition that is universally accepted, so there is no sharp dividing line between life and non-life; for example, some definitions have viruses as 'life' and others have then as 'non-life'.
Life begets life, life only comes from life .......... where did that initial life essence come from to pass on??
As there is no such thing, the question makes no sense. Simple things can become more complex, given an input of energy. The sun provides plenty of energy; simple molecules can become complex molecules with the right conditions, and once a complex molecule arises that has the property of catalysing the production of more molecules similar to itself, evolution will inevitably lead to greater and greater complexity - but no matter how complex it all is, it still comes down to the same fundamental physics and chemistry that underlies everything.
If you say elemental molecules sparked by electricity then surely you can recreate it in a lab or bring life back to the dead.
Multicellular life is far too complex for this to be achievable in all but the most unusual cases; however, depending on your definition of 'dead', it is arguable that modern hospitals do routinely bring life back to the dead. Unicellular life is less complex (but still very complex indeed), and there are a number of research projects under way that aim to build a living cell from scratch. It is difficult, but far from impossible.
Where is that missing evidence where we transitioned from walking on all fours to tow legs, you know those human skulls that have holes in the rear and not at the base??
Why would such things be expected? Bipedalism pre-dates humanity by a very long time - those transitional skulls exist, but they are not human skulls.
Matter can neither be neither created or destroyed, if not a God then where did matter come from??
Actually, matter can easily be created and destroyed - so easily, that it happens all the time, all by itself. We can detect this happening, for example through the Casimir Effect.
However, if it were true that matter can neither be created nor destroyed, it is unclear how this 'fact' could be overcome by adding another entity. Indeed, to add a God is to step away from our goal - now we not only need to explain where matter came from, but also where God came from. At best, adding God to the equation achieves nothing (replacing an unknown with a new unknown); but in fact it doesn't even manage that; replacing an unknown with an even less well understood and harder to measure unknown is making things worse, not better, from the point of view of someone trying to understand how things work.
Not only is 'God' not
the answer to the question 'Where did everything come from'; It isn't even
an answer, because 'God' is necessarily included in 'everything'. There are only two possibilities; Either something always existed, or something came from nothing. Postulating a God, no matter what properties you imagine it to have, does nothing to change this.
If 'God' is your answer, then you haven't understood the question.
Surely you scientist can create matter in your labs??
Creating matter is easy and routine - E=mc
2, so a little bit of matter needs a lot of energy to create. Of course, unlike the quantum fluctuations that are responsible for the Casimir Effect, this is not creation ex-nihilo, but rather a demonstration that the Law of Conservation of Mass and the Law of Conservation of Energy are, in fact, only applicable under certain circumstances, and that they are facets of a more universal Law of Conservation of Mass/Energy.