DrZoidberg
Contributor
But what struck me as I enjoyed how happy their smiles were, was that I knew that not one of them, not a single one, was dressed this way to attract sex.
Meh. I think they are. They might not understand it themselves. Their bodies are raging with confusing hormones remote controlling them towards the cock. That's why it's so important not to sleep with teenagers even if they consent to sex. The chance that they understand what they themselves want is pretty slim.
Teenagers are typically hyper sexualised in their expression. Ie, how they chose to present themselves. At no point later in their lives will it be as important to them how sexy/pretty they are. For teenagers, looks (and to be sexually desired) is everything. Because they don't really have anything else with which to attract mates/be popular.
Teenage girls aren't passive innocent little flowers. They're sex missiles cruising towards the nearest penis that says anything kind to them, regardless if that's what they really want. Which is why teen pregnancies skyrocket when adults try to push abstinence.
There's a reason, in our culture, we have an attitude of trying to protect teenagers from what they want. Teenage girls rushing into sex willy nilly will never end well. Which is why sex education is so important. Teenage sexual hormones is like a force of nature. If they're attractive at all they're going to get laid. All the adults can do is to help them deal with the inevitable emotional carnage.
To add to the confusion women also social punish each other for being sexualised in their expression (slut shaming). It's really not easy being a teenager. Not for anyone.
And it is certain that some people would look at the same innocent pictures and duck-lip poses and think, “they are asking for it.”
Yeah, but those people are rapists. So their opinions doesn't count.