Emily Lake
Might be a replicant
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Your entire response confuses spanking with discipline. Children can be disciplined without resorting to violence and they will "get it". Sometimes it takes a bit longer to get through, but it works.I'm not sure I agree with your logic. That you have reached a given conclusion is certain, and you are free to believe whatever you wish with regard to spanking. I simply don't believe that your argument supports that conclusion.
Consider: Very young children don't understand pretty much anything. They don't understand why they're not allowed to yank the cat's tail whenever they wish to. They don't understand why they can't have cake for every meal. They don't understand why they don't get to say bad words just like daddy. They don't understand why they're not allowed to drive. They don't understand why they can't bite or throw rocks or poop in the middle of the carpet. There's any number of things that they don't understand at all.
If understanding is required in order to provide discipline, then by your logic, no discipline at all is allowed.
A very young child will not understand why they're being placed in time out any more than they'll understand why they've received a sharp swat on the bottom. They won't understand why they're toy has been taken away from them. No disciplinary approach will make any more sense than spanking will.
I submit, however, that spanking may in some cases (certainly not all, and certainly not for all children) provide a more effective and memorable deterrent than time outs or loss of toys or other privileges may. Pain avoidance is a very strong, intrinsically hard-wired instinct for all animals, so far as I know. The pain should of course not be catastrophic, it shouldn't be damaging. And as I've said, it certainly isn't for all cases. If a less drastic approach works for your child, then by all means use that approach. And if you personally prefer not to spank your child, then don't.
I don't however, see a solid logical argument that supports forcing your belief in this regard on other people.
I disagree. rousseau's argument hinges on the premise that "One needs to have an understanding of why they're being spanked for the spanking to have any long-term effect on behavior".
It must then be true for any other form of discipline as well: One needs to have an understanding of why they're being disciplined for the discipline to have any long-term effect on behavior. Otherwise, it's simply special pleading.
Rousseau's argument relies on the fact that a child won't understand why they're being spanked, therefore it doesn't make any sense to spank them. But by that logic, it also makes no sense to put them in time out, or to take away their toys, or to perform any other sort of discipline, because they also don't understand why that discipline is being administered.
Thus, I conclude that rousseau's argument does not support rousseau's conclusion; rousseau has made a faulty argument.
	
		
 